she's 15 and is sooooo mean. she is always yelling at me and only cares about herself. She hogs the TV. She watches the white sox, nascar, the bulls, blackhawks, anything and everything. I only want to watch arena football which comes on once a week on monday night, which is always busy for me. i only have time to watch the fourth quarter and when i can, she always has the TV. she tells at me for talking when she is listening to the TV so it needs to be perfectly quiet. She also goes CRAZY when she sees her fav. athletes on TV. She squeels when Aaron rowand, aj pierzynski, and a lot of other people are one TV. Last night I lost it and pretty much started yelling at her to shut up. i usually dont do this but i was tired of listening to her b/c i was nice to her. even when she yelled at me to go away, i went away. and my parents say that there is nothing to do about her. should i make a log of all the things she has done mean to me or suk up to her?it;s always her way.
2007-05-22 09:39:42 · 4 answers · asked by FSBB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i want to work in the backyard but SHE always gets to do it. and she will not listen on a talk i have b/c she will deny all of the yelling she really did. She's always inside except when she plays baseball with her friends. and i'm never allowed to play with her yet we let her play with us.
2007-05-22 09:41:46 · update #1
You better take time to be with your sister, last year I lost mine from cancer and she was 28. I wish I could go back and do anything with her. I get mad hearing people say they cant stand there sister or brother, look at it this way they will always be there for you and if you don't start getting along one day they will be gone and there is nothing you will be able to do about it!!!
2007-05-22 09:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family doesn't act much like family and they treat you poorly and stab you in the back. Since you are both young this could possibly stop as you reach adulthood and a mutual, satisfying sibling relationship will then emerge.
If not and she is still this way later on in life, then you don't have to hang out with her, even if she is your sister. Some folks think you should put up with crap from family that you wouldn't put up with from someone else. I say, BS, boundaries shouldn't be stepped on by family members, either, and I should be treated as good, if not better, then they treat their friends.
2007-05-22 16:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't let you play baseball with her and her friends and you let her play when your friends are over tell her that if she does not let you play baseball with her and her friends then she will not be allowed to play when you and your friends are playing baseball
2007-05-23 14:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand my sister too.but I don't know what can I do???and she's 7.you are lucky,ur sister is 15!!
2007-05-22 16:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by killhandekill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋