A few weeks ago i went over to my friends house and was going to spend the night.But we got in a fight so i went home,my sister was obviously not planning on me coming home because when i walked in she was fingering herself and watching a lesbian video.She saw me and freaked out and ran to her room and didnt come out the rest of the night,and we havent really talked since. Should i tell my parents,or mind my own?
2007-05-22 09:33:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's better to mind your own.. and just keep it to yourself... try to act like nothing happened with your sister since she may just be only embarrased that you caught her and that is why she wont talk to you
2007-05-22 09:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jimbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, awkward! The thing is, she is probably totally embarrassed and maybe even shameful about what you saw. Not that she was doing it (it is perfectly normal and if you haven't done it yet, you probably will some day), but the fact that you saw it. It generally is something that people prefer to do privately. She may well wish that it is just forgotten and never spoke of, but you both know what what you saw. Give her a few days to process what happened and if she wants to act like nothing happened, respect those wishes. It should be up to her if she wants to bring this incident to light. Maybe just a friendly "this doesn't change anything", or "it's no big deal". You probably just need to let her know that there is nothing different between you two. Sometimes even just an knowingly look with a nod settles the issue, never to be brought up again.
2007-05-22 16:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by dark_knight_1735 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not know this but what you say now will forever destroy any relationship you have with your sister. Once you tell you can never undo the damage that was done Remember this " Life and death are in the power of the tongue" you can build her up or you can damage her for life just by your words so think before you speak.
2007-05-22 18:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by setfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you would want if the tables were turned. Mind your own business! You may want to tell your sister your lips are sealed as well. Good luck.
2007-05-22 16:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by bvoyant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would you hope to accomplish by telling your parents? As it stands, what happened is very, very humiliating for your sister as it was supposed to be a private thing. She is mortified and can't even talk to you right now. Do you want things to get worse?
2007-05-22 16:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is a normal thing. You get to know your body and what feels good. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. Don't tell your parents. I am sure she is embarrassed enough that you caught her.
2007-05-22 16:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own. Do not be the person who tells on people. If you do tell, they will think about how you should have not told. That is embarrasing and forget it happened.
2007-05-22 16:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by booney_tunes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any point in embarrassing her or yourself by talking to her about it. And I definitely don't see any point in talking to your parents about it. Just let things be.
2007-05-25 16:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Stacey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind you own business, there's nothing wrong with her doing that.
2007-05-22 17:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by soccer mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, some things are best not discussed and propriety deems you keep this to yourself.
2007-05-22 18:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋