He promised me he would never lie to me and I believed him. He forgot to hang up his cell phone after talking to me, so I heard every thing. It hurts
2007-05-22 09:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by grenis906 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you are mad at the wrong person, it should be you.
Men don't lie as much as women do, women lie all day long as that has been proven.
2007-05-22 09:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's an ego thing, bragging rights, or the thrill... but some guys just are not content being faithful to one woman even though they say they are. But keep the faith that not all guys are pigs... and there is a wonderful, honest guy for you eventually.
I've been there... two months before the wedding... I learned he was with someone else.
It hurts.... but try not to blame yourself or take it out too much on the next guy. Lesson learned.
2007-05-22 09:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by mezmilkfreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, alot of men are liars and only think of themselves. Don't get too upset. There are still men out there who take women seriously and try not to hurt you. You can do better. Just remember that.
2007-05-22 09:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me by a girl i was dating. Lying has no gender. it's just something people do in order to get away with something they feel may ruin there character if found out. But they forget when a person does find out it really wasn't worth it. That's when the lesson starts for them.
2007-05-22 10:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Wise 'ole owl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest cheaters don't stop to think about anyone but themselves! They don't have empathy nor does the one they are cheating with if they know about the wife or gf. I know what you're going through and i wish you the best of luck. It is going to hurt for a long time.
2007-05-22 09:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you're really asking is why didn't this guy tell you about seeing someone else.
When you make a decision to trust someone, you're putting yourself at risk. It's a risk that has to be taken if you're interested in being in a relationship. Sometimes they're true to you, and in this case he wasn't.
You never really know...
Good luck to you. I hope you find someone honest.
2007-05-22 09:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Peter N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why we lie.............we don't want to hurt your feelings. Remember, though, not all guys are like that. Just most of us.
2007-05-22 09:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Eldude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men do not care about our feeling's all they do is think about themselves ok. i know it hurt i went through that to.
2007-05-22 09:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋