Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months now, and we both have suggested holding hands. But she says that I should make the first move. I don't mind making the first move, but I just don't know how to. So how should I? Thanks, much obliged
2007-05-22 09:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by Nathan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it really doesnt matter.. depends on the girl..
you could just slide you hand into hers and lace fingers..
you could ask her, " May i hold your hand"
you could even pick up her hand, kiss it and then either lace fingers or ask her first...
no really right or wrong way to do that...
hope this helps..
2007-05-22 09:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've both talked bout this and she agrees holding hands is ok with her..therefore, next time you two are out together, just take her hand and walk with her* It may feel awkward at first cuz you've never done it before...but just reach out and take her hand..you'll both be glad you did* Keep on SMilin*
2007-05-22 16:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you guys are walking just slip your hand into hers. It'll make her feel so special.
My friend dates a guy for 2 weeks and they are already holding hands. She bugs me sometimes... but oh well. You and your girlfriend are much smarter.
2007-05-22 16:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Great idea. Three months is a good time to hold hands.
2007-05-22 16:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months and you haven't held hands wow ok here is how you do it next time you are sitting next to each other and her hand is by her side put yours down there also and just kind of grab on softly it will work like a charm!!!
2007-05-22 16:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by D1&Donly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. It's been 3 mounths. I say when your walking next to each other make sure her hands arn't full. and just grab them.
BUT don't say something like "high five" and then hold them. I wouldnt do that.
2007-05-22 16:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should, women love it if u take the lead, it makes them feel secure. too do it just right, go on a walk have a conversation, get her to laugh and casually (like your being rushed) take her hand. look briefly at her with a smile.
2007-05-22 16:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by leray h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take her hand when you guys are walking together somewhere. It doesn't have to be a big production.
2007-05-22 16:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Meagan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask her to measure her hand with yours to see how much bigger your hand is then hers. Once you have her hand in yours tell her it fits so nice you will continue to hold it.
It worked on me amybe it will work on your girl too
2007-05-22 16:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem is, you're talkin about the simple stuff before you do it. if you want to hold hands, just grab her hand when you're walking together. if you want to kiss her, look her in the eyes and plant one. if you're havin trouble with that much, it looks like you wont be goin much further, but my gosh, just do it.
2007-05-22 16:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋