We're seniors, and this guy I met in a class was flirting with me hardcore, but me, being the stupid-game player I am, wanted to really test how he felt by telling him about these other guys I was interested in..of course I didn't until he asked me who I liked...but when I did he turned around and put his head down for a few minutes. I didn't know what to say since there could be a number of reasons he was putting his head down, right? Anyways, flash forward to the end of the year, he started being a d.ick and ignoring me after I asked him to prom (also, as of today prom was over a month ago) so I confronted him and he said it was because he a) thought I was mad because he said no (but he said "it's not a no, but I already have a date" which I took to mean as he would have gone with me if he didn't already have a date...which = interested..right?) and b) he felt bad for saying no. If this is so, do you think he's interested or just bullshi.tting me? Didn't I show him I was interested?
2007-05-22 09:18:36 · 4 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would flirt back with him too, but I don't have a lot of guys clawing at me...so I really never know how to tell if they like me or are just being friendly! That's why I told him about the other two guys.
2007-05-22 09:26:17 · update #1
also, it's been probably about 4 or 5 months since we've had a class together and ever since then we haven't talked. at all. It's like when I started acting like I liked him, he pulled away. But I've cooled down now alot so do you think it would be awkward to send him a message on myspace? we WERE friends..even if we never hung out outside of school...
2007-05-22 09:30:18 · update #2
nope - he just ignored a game player
not worth his time - besides, you have all these other guys
enjoy them
2007-05-22 09:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably not messing w/ you.
from his perspective it could be interpreted that you are just looking out for his best interests. MAKE IT CLEAR where you stand
2007-05-22 16:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt sound interested to me.
2007-05-22 16:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did. Ditch him. Show him that you're not the rebound when he loses anything he's got.
2007-05-22 16:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋