The love of money is the root of all evil from what Christ says. So I figure it's probably best to take the blessings of God (Children) first.
College just seems like another reason for one to join into the U.S. Capitalist mindset. Mary, the mother of Christ is was said to be 15. Laura Wilder married fairly young too.
It seems now with divorce well over 50 percent and "shack ups" have multiplied 600% over the past 20 years that it would be smart to marry young and grow together rather than grow yourself and then marry.
What do you think?
2007-05-22 08:19:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always get what you want, before u make responiblities for yourslef.
2007-05-22 08:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by lo'sbabygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well once you marry you change, its not just you that you must worry about, you your wife, kids and then there is no money for College or eduation because your life needs it first , food, clothes, house, car. But if you do colloge first then all you need to worry about is yourself, and ayou can take the time to do what you want when you want, instead is it okay with the family, will they like it, will they be happy. 4 Years doesn't make you old, what 26, at the most, that is just a drop in the bucket, live life and then marry the person of your dreams and have a wonderful life together forever.
2007-05-22 08:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times change and people change. In Christ's time agriculture was the main business and was labor intensive so nobody needed to read or write or think; they were just drudge labor 24/7. We have evolved into a more non-agricultural way of life; more highly technical; and if you are uneducated you are condemned to a life of low paying jobs and second class citizenship, aka known as drudge work. Just like in olden times when you were worn out and died at the age of 30 from old age.
2007-05-22 08:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather not have to worry about where my kids are going to get their meals the next day. I won't have kids until I am financially able to support them. That requires a college degree (generally, I won't say always). It is an economic decision. If you look you will see that many of the divorces are also people who married young.
2007-05-22 08:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by erinn83bis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most people think when the graduate, they will get a good job and be able to support a family better, but i think that anyone should wait to get married so young. That is the reason that most people get divoced. Plus, everyone is losing their morals and will cheat and not think twice, so marriage and kids is something that should not be taken lightly at all.
2007-05-22 08:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Raymond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend first, because if you are successful, then you don't know if that girl dates you for you or for your money. If you have a girlfriend before being successful, then you know she stays cause she loves you for you.
2007-05-22 08:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard
College is hard
Raising children is hard
If you complete college first you can then concentrate on the marriage once that is going well you can have children and concentrate on them while maintaining your marriage.
TRY ALL THREE AT ONCE ????? NO THANK YOU! ! ! !
2007-05-22 08:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To have a life to share with someone.
2007-05-22 08:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋