my mother has lost her mind over the last 2years. she is very abusive, I left the house after she threatened 2shoot me with my stepdads gun & moved in with a lady who offered her daughters empty room 2me.
We didn't speak for a year and when we started talking again I was really happy to have my mom back. It felt good to speak to her and do stupid things together again :)
After about a year she has started acting abusive again, she threatens me and my brother (who also left home at 17) constantly if we dont want to give her money. she has lost her past 3 or 4 jobs because she never goes to work. She has taken to dating dodgey guys between the ages of 19 and 27 (she was a young mom and is only 37). she fights all the time for no reason but she gets physical and rips me apart emotionally.
Lately she has started sleeping over at known drug addicts house and using herself. i tried to confront her and she just swore at me and said i was dead in her eyes.. i dont know what to do?
2007-05-22 08:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by chanty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is a very hard thing to go through. It sounds like she is in denial about her habbit. You should look up your local Durg addiction support group. It sounds like she is letting the drugs take over and ither doesnt care or refusses to see that. You mother loves you and always will regaurdless of the way she acts and what she says. Once a mother deep down inside always one. Dont let her acts and things take over how you live your life. You only get one. Do what makes you happy and what will give you peace and joy in this life time. A support group and conseling is always a great way to start down a heathly mental and physical road. Learn from your mothers mistakes dont follow them. keep a jornal is helpful. Also write your mother a letter about how you feel and how her actions and things DO to you. Let your mother know that you want her in your life but the badness she is into can not be part of it that you will always behere for her when shes ready to get help. stay Stronge on that and some day she she may just get help. But know its nothing you did to make her that way and you cant force her to get the help she needs only she can.
2007-05-22 08:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Royal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, your Mom is on a dead end road. You and your brother have to live your lives and if you are in and around your Mother, sad to say, it won't be what you two deserve. Drugs are truly the number one villain to modern day families. Stay strong, love your Mother from afar and live your life. God Bless.
2007-05-27 12:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds very familiar. My advice is I know you love your Mother because she is who gave birth to you, but in life we all have to let go of something that is getting us down and keeping us down. I think it is time to let go and live your life. The occasional hi and bye could not harm you (hopefully). Your mother may have a mental illness. When she tires of her lifestyle before it is too late she will come around and get help. Until then live your life!
2007-05-27 19:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Deonica L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother can't be helped until she admits she has a problem. You need to walk away from this. Write her a letter expressing how you feel and tell her not to contact you until she has received the help she needs. It wont be easy but its best for both of you.
2007-05-22 15:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cheyenne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has a drug problem the way it sounds get some of family and friends and the kids and star an interevention she needs to admitt that she has a proble and get some help. good luck to you and i hope that you get your mom back before she goes to far and you cant oull her back. prayers are with you.
2007-05-28 23:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your mom could use some help,shes mentally unstable and the sooner she gets help the better it will be for everyone around her,if shes left in this condition ,shes liable to murder someone or maime them.please,in the name of god,get her to a doctor ASAP!
2007-05-22 15:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your so dead to her, then be that way. Leave her alone, she doesnt want to accept u in her life then u have no choice than to move on.
2007-05-22 15:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. Just because you love that doesn't mean you have to like her. Is living with your dad an option?
2007-05-22 15:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom needs some professional help. You cannot do it for her. Stay away from her to keep yourself safe.
2007-05-22 15:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by linda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete her number and leave her be. She's got problems, she'll only drag you down.
2007-05-22 16:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋