yes, but keep resisting, it'll be worth the wait
2007-05-22 08:06:58
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answer #1
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answered by Calista 5
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Oh Yes this is very normal, your hormones are up and running but before you step outta those jeans think things out, ask yourself do you care enough about this person to give a piece of your self away? this is an act you will remember for the rest of your life. Also are you taking some sort of birth control? only being 13 means your body isn't fully developed and isn't ready to have children. also go prepared, make sure you have condoms and I don't mean just one keep a couple handy in case one breaks, and never rely on the guy to bring them cuz half the time they don't even wanna where them. For the most of humanity eventually we all indulge in sex, so if your going to do it go prepared, you will feel better without the worry and the guy may have alot more respect for you if he knows your healthy minded in regards to sex.
2007-05-22 08:17:30
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answer #2
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answered by flowergirlforlife 2
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MAYBE, it depends!
yes, it is all apart of going though puberty for girls!....guys go through this stage of puberty when they are 10 or 11 as long as you are not haveing it than you are fine....but if you are..you might have an addiction and need to get help....talk to your parents...and if you cant do that find an audult who is wise and who you know you can trust i know it might be hard but audults usually know about this stuff!..please take my advise...it works!
i had a problem similar..and after talking to an audult it helped..ALOT!!!!!
and dont just wait until you are "IN LOVE" cuz thats a load of krap!!!....wait until you are married...it also exterminates problems in the future...remember what these people are saying to you now in the future because this is not the last time your hormones will be racing!!!!
waitning till your married is so much more worth it
2007-05-22 08:09:45
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answered by kaka 1
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Yes it is normal for anyone to think about having sex, but your only 13 wait until you love someone.
2007-05-22 08:05:43
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answered by Anonymous
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It is Normal...I will not tell you not to do it..What I will tell you is this:
if you choose to do it..use precaution..because if you get pregnant you will miss most of the good stuff from being young
If you choose to use a Condom..cause You can get sick and even die
If you choose to do it..Dont think that the person that you choose to do it with is going to love you more..it is actually the opposite..they will think that you are just a ($*#*4#*4
Doing does not make you more mature...Thinking about what will come ahead and the future is what makes you grow up..
Now looking at some of the consequences and the Risks it is in your hands to see what is more adequate for you....Think it ttwice
Be SAFe!!!
2007-05-22 08:08:26
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answered by Nicole E 4
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I remember when that was talked about in health class. I was looking around the room asking myself..."Which of these classmates would become sexually active in the near future?" This would give me a down right accurate view of how they view their morals and morality in general.
This ties in with what you have been thinking. A few girls have stuck...parts...in my face that they say always turns guys on but to me, they just looked like desperate little twirps. I, in my opinion think it is normal to have the conflict about whether sex is right or wrong but it is not normal in my opinion for someone to not think of the consequences before they do it or before they make any decision related to the matter of sexual intercourse. being 15, just two years older than you, I have also experienced the dog days of teen life and I have overcome great odds to avoid getting into drugs, alcohol, sex and other immoral sins. I can give you my opinion on the matter but I cannot force you to listen to me so I will make my point clear. You have to consider the effects on not just yourself, but your family, the way you socialize with your friends and the other people related to you in some way. You might get a bad image as being a desperate girl who wants to jump in bed with anyone if you decide to do this. Then there is the matter which almost no one likes to talk about and that is STI's or STD's (what ever you refer to them as). Your family might suffer the name you give them if you decide to have sex. They might get the rivving or the laughs and the scorns from others. Your parent's friends might think they are bad parents and you might disturb or really harm their social life. But hiding this from others isn't going to be easy. Although there is a big chance you would not tell anyone, others in your neighbourhood might get suspicious and consider you are becoming sexually active.
Most importantly, I hope you think about what your religion teaches you if you are a member of any faith. I hope you make the decision that would do the best for you.
-Adam...
2007-05-22 08:14:58
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answered by Adam Chambers 4
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Are you getting good grades? Has your grooming declined?
Are you neglecting anything else? If not, then don't worry about it.
It's a normal stage - your mind sort of plays out it's own scenarios, without any of the risk involved in real life.
Guess what? Everybody that is conscious thinks about sex, at least occasionally, until they die.
2007-05-22 08:09:32
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answered by Nurse Susan 7
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Its practically normal for you to think about it but your too young your only thridteen and thats not cute you don't wanna rep having sex isn't all that it is cracked up to be but if you do deside, make sure that your are ready not pressured there is a difference and allways use protection I stress that so hard
2007-05-22 08:08:22
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answered by Jasmine P 2
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no u should be having sex at da age of 13 because there are so responibiles that goes a long with sex and plus u should u be thinking about an eduaction and what is next 4u in da furture and u have a long time 2 plan after ur furture
2007-05-22 08:06:00
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm 32 and I do the same. Nothing wrong with that, but you should probably wait a few years. 13 is still a bit young.
2007-05-22 08:07:55
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answered by fonzarelli_1999 5
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Most 13 year olds go through this. Just keep your pants on and wait a few years till you're mature enough to handle it.
2007-05-22 08:49:53
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answered by ? 7
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