So my friens girlfriend is pissed at him for a video he didnt know was made of him "recieving' from a girl. Both him and the girl have little to know memory of the event because of the amount of alchohol involved. also the couple were not dating until agood 3-5 months after this. Would you be mad I dont see why it matters?
2007-05-22 07:40:15 · 16 answers · asked by cobrascnumba13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy. Shes mad, even if it happened before her, because she is jealous someone else was there before her, it was and is on tape, and she probably thinks he was acting irresponsible to boot.
Good Luck to you Buddy, he is going to need it.
2007-05-22 07:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can see why it would be shocking to her, and it does suck for him and seems like BS/unfair that it was made without his knowledge.
Still, perhaps she's not mad just about the video. Maybe she was also disappointed and upset to learn that he's the type of guy who gets really drunk at parties and "receives" from a girl in front of other people?
I could be wrong, but that would bother me too.
2007-05-22 14:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by mistaken4sane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's immature for being mad about something that happened before she came along.
The person who taped it could face legal charges if he or the girl in the video press charges, especially since it seems to have been show around to other people. Defamation of character, invasion of privacy, etc.
He's immature for getting that drunk.
2007-05-22 14:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She shouldn't feel angry but if I were her I'd think long and hard about dating a guy that gets so wasted he doesn't know what's going on. Also about a guy whose friends would film something like that AND then show it around!
She can do better. I'd just laugh and then dump him.
2007-05-22 14:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because the past is the past and it shouldn't matter to her if they were not dating then. I don't see why people get mad over stuff that happened do long ago my god. sorry i get worked up sometimes
2007-05-22 14:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be upset to be with a guy who drinks to such excess he has sex with someone and does not even remember the event. This would tell me something about him, and trust me, it would not be good.
2007-05-22 14:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No reason to be mad, Just maybe jealous that someone was with her man - Even though at the time he wasnt. Or is she prude...Maybe mad that he could be that drunk to let it happen.
2007-05-22 14:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shows a wild side of him. Maybe she didn't believe him when he told her that he didn't know anything about the tape.
2007-05-22 14:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by nspiredmind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't feel comfortable knowing it is still out there floating around. However, if it is from the passed she doesn't have any reason to be p-i-s-s-e-d
2007-05-22 14:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! it was before us. but if 2 much for her she should move one.
2007-05-22 14:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋