2007-05-22 07:31:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is important for the two people involved. Normally that is the initial attraction although, after getting to know someone on a deeper level most of the time the person begins to look even better because our feelings take over. It is best that we do end up looking deeper because time does take it's toll on our looks. Thats where love and committment come into play!
2007-05-22 07:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a loaded question! Of course, we are first attracted to someone by their appearance. But I sure pray that that's not what is about because there is no guarantee that a person's looks will stay. In fact, I would almost guarantee that they won't. Do we stop loving someone when they've been in an accident, gain weight or contracted a skin infection or disease. If looks are what its all about then we are a sorry lot! This attitude of having to have 'looks' keeps many great relationships from happening. Its what's in the heart and soul of a person that should count the most. God bless!
2007-05-22 07:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by vanessamaypan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well YOU! have to be attracted to that person because you have to be with that person physically as well. So I suppose yes it does matter in a way if you want a healthy sexual relationship. Let me just add that by physical appearance i mean how that person appears to the individual in the relationship, not to others.
2016-04-01 02:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Yesennia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to be drawn to something that is pleasing to our eyes. And initial attraction is important because it's what draws us to that person in the first place. But just because someone is pretty doesn't mean they have a good personality. The person who take the time to get to know the not so pretty person is worth it. Outside appearance draws us close but inside appearance is what keeps us hooked.
2007-05-22 07:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS important, but it shouldn't be what defines a relationship. It's about compatibility, chemistry, do you share the same morals and beliefs, etc. I mean, there has to be SOME form of physical attraction, but again, it should not be the basis of your relationship.
2007-05-22 07:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kori spelled backwards is Irok 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a start, but not necessarily. I met the love of my life on the phone, so I already fell for his personality. When I met him, he wasn't my type, but his personality is. We've been together 12 yrs.
2007-05-22 07:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you are not physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually attracted to the person then what's the point?
2007-05-22 07:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do u really want in a relationship?someone who loves u or someone u can show off.remember love can take u a long way but physique ages wit time
2007-05-22 07:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cyndy Godwins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! not unless you like going out with a guy because you think hes hott and hes the biggest jerk in the world.
2007-05-22 07:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
most people insist on beauty and handsomeness but I truly believe that what matters is what is on the inside.A more caring person is better than a really attractive person.
2007-05-22 07:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by vgfan_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋