What Should I do?

Question

I have a friend who says he would like to make love to young women when they start puberty i have told him that he is sick in the head and he just laughs it off he has not made love to a young person but i am asking what should be done has

Answer 1

you can't do anything. if he is just expressing a fantasy because he has a trusting relationship with you, then really no big deal. but when it comes down to it, you've already done what you can by expressing how you feel about his fantasy. if anything is to be done about it, he will have to do it.

Answer 2

If you ever suspect that he has I would go to the authorities...otherwise about the only thing you can do is not be a friend to someone who is obviously 'sick in the head' as you put it. Besides....girls or boys starting puberty never make love...a consenting couple who are both of sound mind and really love each other (and not just enetering puberty) make love...everything else is just sex or rape.

Answer 3

Since he has not done anything yet, you can't really do anything. I would say you shouldn’t hang to with this person anymore, but on the other hand if you feel he would really do this then maybe you should hang around and if he does do something to a young girl, and then you could turn him in so that he isn't able to do it over and over.

Maybe you could check with the local authorities as what to do. However if they follow up on it and he finds out that it was you, you would never get the opportunity to have him arrested if he ever followed through with this.

Answer 4

you should definately try to get this friend help. he may be classified as a pedifile. a pedifile is someone who is over 18 and likes to be intamite with underaged kids. he may like the fact that the girls may be a virgin or just like the fact that they are young considering how many young girls are active. in any case your friend does need some sort of couseling because the thoughts that he has is very inappropriate and who knows how long it will be before he starts acting on his inmpules. if this happens he would be charged with rape no matter if it was consensual or not. if you had a young daughter would you let your friend have sexual relations with her? i didn't think so. the best thing you can do is get your friend help.

Answer 5

For the moment just stay close and let him continue to open up to you about this -- if he starts suspecting that you are turning against him he will not tell you anymore -- if you ever find out or he does tell you that he has done something with a young person then record your conversations with him or something so that you have evidence to take to the authorities. For right now be the "close" friend!!

Answer 6

People starting puberty are still children. That said, as long as he doesn't act on his fantasies all is fine. I hope he knows that he can't do anything to these young girls. Be a friend to him, he obviously trusts you enough to tell you. But warn him that you will not forgive him or protect him should he harm a child.

Answer 7

The label is pedophila and if you hear he acts on it, get the name of the child and call the police. This is against the law. Having sex with a child under the age of sixteen in most states is a felony!

Answer 8

Think of all the people with sisters, and daughters, and then think of how wrong it is. Put your self in the shoes of a married man with a 12 year old daughter. Then think of how you'd feel with this creep out there. Whatever you come up with, thats what you should do.

Answer 9

I wouldn't want to be associated with this type of person.. maybe keep an eye on him and make sure he doesn't "befriend" any young people.

Answer 10

he might be talking smack.... which he like's to get a reaction out of you he is doing it the wrong way ... no-body in there right mind play's about that ... so turn his *** in ...... set him up like on 20/20 he might just be a freak and if so he'll be exsposed and if not the idea might be put into action...what a perv