I'am re-asking some else's question because everyone miunderstood, and i wanted to know the answer.
If a girl is giving a guy mixed signals but maybe she's actually just playing hard to get or wants the guy to be more forward, would you as the guy misinterpret this as a sign of no interest and back off or would you take the bait and ask her out ? tell her your true fillings? or give her mixed signals as well?
and ladies who experienced this please share?
2007-05-22 06:19:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont mind a girl playing hard to get but she has to give in a little here and there so I know she's interested. Some girls just stick with the hardnosed mentality and when the guy gives in they are confused on why he stopped pursuing her. Show some signs that you do like them so they know its not just one sided.
Example:
If you are on the phone with the guy and he's trying to ask you out and you want to play hard to get, try and suggest something that you like. Pretend that if he asked you to go to a certain place that you might say yes but it would depend on if he asked. That will encourage him to ask to see the answer. If you say something like I'll have to think about it or of that nature I dont find this type of hard to get as a bad thing. Some girls dont suggest anything at all and leave the guy guessing all the time. That will wear someone out.
2007-05-22 06:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Nerd At Your Service 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it inmature to play games if you like someone just tell them so, if not tell them that as well then both of you can stop wasting time on all this crap.
2007-05-22 13:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would go ahead and ask her out....why not take chances
2007-05-22 13:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋