or a girl with a great body who is quiet and self-conscious?
2007-05-22 05:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most diffidently a lady with confidence as long as I am attracted to her. Besides beauty is not only on the outside but inside also.
I dated a lady who was drop dead gorgeous for several years. Our biggest issue was she was always so worried and self conscious about gaining 2 pounds. It drove me nuts that no matter how beautiful I thought and told her she was that she still had self esteem issues. It got to the point that I could not take it any longer so we moved on.
2007-05-22 06:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know.
'Fun' sounds good. I don't view 'quiet' as the opposite of fun. As for confident vs self-conscious, I guess confident is better, but self-conscious - to a point - is fine as well. If it starts holding her back from doing things with me, it's an issue.
I don't know. Also depends what you mean by 'so-so' in looks. In general, I'd say men are a little more forgiving of women's bodies then women themselves are, but there's a line beyond which there's just no interest in dating them. If 'so-so' means she'd like to drop 10 lb and her breasts aren't huge, she could still be pretty attractive. If 'so-so' is code for 'mildly obese', then I'm not going to be interested, period.
2007-05-22 06:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women tend to overestimate their attractiveness. The more confident they are, the more they overrate it.
Therefore if a girl admits that she is both "fun and confident" (which is basically like saying confident twice) and "so-so looks," that means a pretty strong overestimation and she's still only so-so. Give me the great-body quiet girl. The so-so double confident isn't really so-so, she's most likely a 3/10 at best.
On the other hand, if the girl really was so-so (and only a man can make that judgement), then I would most likely take her.
2007-05-22 05:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would go with a girl who is so so with confidence over looks. Confidence usually brings out the fullest in someone. I like to have fun and its even better to be with someone who wants to have fun with me regardless the environment and conditions. Being with someone who is pretty but always needs reassurance gets old quick. Always trying to be positive to them so they can be positive makes it more of a duty or job than anything else.
2007-05-22 06:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Nerd At Your Service 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confidence is way better but u might actually enjoy being with the self conscious girl.
2007-05-22 06:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by ADRIANA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So-so and confident all the way. When i was younger I used to go for looks, but looking back, they don't matter, it's all about personalty.
2007-05-22 05:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by kingcaid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lady, looks isn't everything. if you try to find the perfect mate in life you will miss out on life. this quote is while you are looking for the stars the moon is passing you by. meaning what you are looking for isn't what it seems.
2007-05-22 06:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
great body ....with a great body come lots of 'fun' and confidence...
2007-05-22 05:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a given. Insecure people are not attractive no matter how good they look.
2007-05-22 05:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kellie B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good question!! i would rather have the so-so looking one that is fun to be around
2007-05-22 05:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋