So one night i slepted the night at my friends house and he was on the computer and I when out side to relaxe and get some fresh air. His sister came out and I have a crush on her and she flurts with me and stuff all the time. So she comes sits right next to me and leans up agiasnt me and says she's cold so i put my arm around her and i look down at her and she looks up at me and we kiss and start making out.
My ? is, is it wrong to makeout with your best friends little sister? (i'm 16 and she is 15) and he has no idea, he also hates his sister.
2007-05-22 05:46:37 · 20 answers · asked by Tyson A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is why God gave little girls big brothers...to bring them home boyfriends. And if if he is decent enough to be friends with the brother, he should be good enough for little sister.
However, it does create problems: brother feels an instinctive need to protect his little sister from the big bad wolf (even if he pretends to hate her), and he probably engages in guy-talk [read: sexual conquests] with his friend--which leads to awkwardness; the two siblings are now in direct competition for the same person's time; Mom & Dad start grilling the brother about how many "bases" his friend is running with little sister (more awkwardness, but siblings usually unite against parents); he may not want to be "forced" to hang around his little sister, in order to see you; and finally, if the relationship sours, the old boyfriend hanging out at his old girlfriends house can be uncomfortable for certain parties...especially when the new girlfriend comes along.
But do what you want; it may be worth the risks, and your friend has no right to stop something between his sister & you that you both want. (You're both consenting minors). But you also need to look at it from his point of view: he watched her grow up from infancy, and has an intimacy with, and understanding of her that you may never achieve.
So when you say to your buddy: "Hey, who is that cute chick over there?", and his reply is: "You fool! That's no girl! That's my SISTER!!!"
Do not be suprised.
2007-05-22 06:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Howie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had crushes on lots of my friend's sisters in the past it never went past a simple kiss between any of us. If you were to strike up some sort of relationship with your buddy's sister, it would put an amazing strain on your relationship with buddy. And it could be that she is trying to get more attention from him
2007-05-22 12:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong at all and ur only a year older then her but the one thing i suggest is if u and her engage and a relationship let her brother know it doesnt matter if he hates her thats he business not yours so if u like her tell her if he hates her that much that he doesnt want u with her his not a good freind unless theres more it
2007-05-22 12:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by devandanielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sure he doesnt hate her is the age that makes that will make him think that way. you did need help! i have to be real his gonna think your just playing with her and your not hes best friend i think you should deside what you rather loose. do you want her for real or just for fun. sooner or later hes gonna know if you dont say anything now. stay with her cuz it will comeout no matter what. just tell him you sorry you never though something like this would happen and you didnt use him as friend ship.
2007-05-22 12:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he hates his sister...that will change over time. Talk to your friend. If he's bothered by it, maybe you should back off for a while...don't let a girl (no matter who she is) come between you and your friend.
2007-05-22 12:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk about this with him... If he's a true friend he'll understand, smile, and say: "Man, you do have a terrible taste in women...:S", but let it go.
But you should definitely not hide it from him! Then he'll truly have a reason to get mad at you.
Hope everything ends well. :)
2007-05-22 12:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Liza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it. Your both the same age basically. Just be careful....you might lose a friend over it if you want to go b/f g/f. Be prepared and congrats**
2007-05-22 12:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how you feel. But letting him know will be better in the end. Hope it works out cause your about to loose a friend.
2007-05-22 12:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by jebby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't always kiss and stuff in front of your best friend it will really get on his nerves. Tell your friend about you and her and see his reaction. I really do hope this helps you cuz' your a hottie
2007-05-22 12:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Brittneyyyy(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet that he doesnt hate his sister but yeah if this thing between your 2 is ganna keep going on then you should tell him. you are his friend. But i dont see any thing wrong with it. just dont go off and sleep witnh her.
2007-05-22 12:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by cholia 4 life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋