There is this woman where i work that has come to see me a few times, there is no reason for her to be there and its kinda out of her way, dont get me wrong i love it when she comes to see me i really like her, what i am wondering is if she is just being friendly or is she interested in something more, when she is with me we flirt and talk about her kids all kinds of things. We smile and talk whenever we see each even if only for a few minutes. She always seems to be worried how her hair is when she is with me too, either fixing it or saying is looks a mess. She also told me some other guy told her she had a big chest.
She is married and has three kids, her husband has cheated on her and she has left him once before. I am married but getting divorced.
Everytime i have asked her to take break with me she has and the one night she stayed with me for like four hours and wouldnt leave until i was leaving and she has a 45 min drive home.
2007-05-22 05:42:46 · 17 answers · asked by badd_eclipse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it seems pretty obvious that there's a mutual attraction going on.
Either that, or she's out to get revenge on her cheating husband or out to get validation from a male (you).
Don't put yourself in a situation where cheating could be a possibility.
Wait for her to divorce before you persue her. Same goes for you.
Good luck!
2007-05-22 05:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are each giving eachother exactly what you need, attention. Take it slow and work on a friendship before taking it to he next level. Remeber that you are co-workers and any wrong move could lead to a very uncomfortable working relationship. Also remember, as you stated, that you are both going through issues. You have enough of your own dirty laundry to have to deal with additional loads. There is nothing wrong with innocent flirting, it helps you get through the day. :) Enjoy and take your time.
2007-05-22 12:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by oceanlady_slh67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It look like she want you two to have a relationship.The way she come to see you should tell you something.You need to get yourself together with your divorced so that having a relationship with her want mess your divorce.If she marry she need to leave her husband and get her divorce.Because she keeping coming to you like that can cause some big trouble if her husband find out.So be careful and ask her some question so you want get in trouble.
2007-05-22 12:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definitely wants you. It is up to you now to accept the offer or to reject it. You are divorced and her marriage is in trouble. Maybe she is looking for a potential mate. If you are interested in her, maybe you should start by a friendship or something. But it seems to me that her interest might also be sexual since she is making references to her chest size. If you want her that way. Make a move. It sounds like it might be crowned with a success.
2007-05-22 13:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dangerous situation and that she may be looking for validation and revenge. Be very careful, especially since you work together. Office gossip can be brutal. You're going through a divorce too, don't get involved in something like this!
2007-05-22 12:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants a fling at work so she can say "I was at work and therefore cannot get caught cheating on her husband. Beware of that stuff cause you dont want to lose your job over a piece of booty incase she wigs out on you in order to save her marriage.
2007-05-22 12:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by pwnd! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with you getting a divorce and her being married it would be kinda hard to get together with her but believe it or not, thats what she wants. have a nice serious talk with her. woman like that. if she goes out of her way to see you and talk to you then she wants to get to know you. no woman would go out of her way for something not worthwhile. trust me, ive been there. find out what shes going to do about her marriage. is it not working?
2007-05-22 12:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes u alot for wat u said trust me if a girl likes a boy she would do anything to be with him and be pretty for him so i think u should make the first step or other than that she will leave u as a friend and u guys won't experience that especial thing between each other
2007-05-22 12:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is yours if you want her, be careful though, she may just be getting back at her husband for doing the same thing to her.
2007-05-22 12:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by redsoxwillwin07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cool that you guys get along so well, but don't push her to leave her family, that's just rude man! If you guys are going to be together, it'll happen!
2007-05-22 12:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋