So here's the situation. I was at the mall buying pair of shoes when I ran into a girl I knew and had the biggest crush on back in high school. The only problem was back then she was a real snob and led me to believe that she was attracted to me just to get a laugh for her and her friends, she told me she would rather go out with the star quaterback instead of the honor roll nerd with no fashion sense (namely me!). Anyways she starts a conversation with me telling me that I have changed a whole lot since High School and gives me her phone number and says that she hopes I will call her. She's gained a few pounds but not in a bad way, but the honest truth is that I have moved on and really don't want to talk to this girl primarily for how horrible she treated me. I know they say people change...but then there are people that move on too, I'm one of those people. So my question is should I give this girl a second chance or just throw the number away and forget we ever crossed paths?
2007-05-22 05:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by chgriffin85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thoughts are usually the right thoughts. This girl has more than likely found out that treating people the way that she did in high school wasnt a good thing. You say that she has gained a few pounds, Could this be a reason for her to change her ways? Can she be setting you up for one last strike? There are quite a few things to consider my friend. MY thoughts on the topic? If it were me... I'd deffinately let her know how hurtful she was then and also let her know that because of the way she treated you then, you have no reason to believe that she wouldnt do the same at some point. Just my opinion.
2007-05-22 05:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a chance to show her the man you've become. She may fall head over heels for you and then maybe not. Just out of curiosity I would give her a call in a few days.
2007-05-22 12:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
havent you already answered the question??? would you think about not calling her and wonder what may have happened --- if so then ring her --- if not throw the number away
2007-05-22 12:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw her # in the trash.
2007-05-22 12:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fool me once, shame on you.
fool me twice, shame on me.
don't give up your self esteem. not for real, anyway.
LD
2007-05-22 13:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋