How do you know if you are sexually compatible?

Question

How do you know? Are there tests? Body types that work well together? Etc.

Answer 1

Good question!
My theory is there are a variety of ways a couple can be compatible. There is physical, chemical and emotional.
Obviously in order to be physically compatible with someone, you have to be attracted to their looks, their style, the way they move, the way they groove ;) But also you have to enjoy their technique. The way they kiss, the way they touch. I've dated girls who are too rough or too too gentle. It's their technique, but this is also closely tied to their emotional compatibility.

Emotional compatibility means they know what they want, you know and feel that they have strong feelings for you, passion, and you are on the same wavelength in every way. You're both ready for love. And in that way, you are both emotionally available and compatible.

Chemical compatibility is something I think alot of people overlook. Chemical compatibility has to do literally with their chemical makeup... the way they smell without perfume or cologne. The pheromones that they emit. Or even if their breath stinks. If you're both smokers then no problem, if you both are vegetarians and don't smoke but drink wine, most likely have a good chemistry. BUT there are always exceptions. It just comes down to the pheromones, natural body chemistry, do you both like how the other smells. This closely associates with physical chemistry, because it affects the kisses and other intimacy. If you love the way they smell and you feel they love you, the sexual chemistry will be INTENSE.

So that's my 2 cents. Sexual compatibility is your physical attraction, mixed with your emotional readiness/openness etc, mixed with literal chemistry of pheromones, hygiene etc.

There are no tests, depends on what body type you like and what body type your partner likes. Sometimes you have a tall big woman like a short skinny man. It's all personal preference. The only way you know is when it actually happens. Where you are making love and you feel like there is nothing else in the world but you two at that moment. And spend hours with them being sexual and passionate.

Hope that helps!

Answer 2

Its all in the head (the one on your shoulders). Every one has theyre own ideas on sex and gratifications. Comparing these with the other person is one of the only ways to tell. Dont think for a moment that you would be able to watch a woman walk down the street and be able to tell that you are sexually compatable. It just doesnt work that way! Having the other persons input is the only way to tell.

Answer 3

Wow. Umm.. no. You have sex, and you find out. Thats the only way. I guess you could talk about it, but it isn't like there are certian styles that go by blood type or anything.


And in responce to Patch, up top... She only needs to have a small vagina if you have a small penis. Looks like thats what patch is worried about!

Answer 4

If the sex is amazing... I would say that you're sexually compatible.

Answer 5

Honestly, I think any couple that's interested can make the sex good for everyone.

The bigger problem area is differances in desire and how you plan to handle them.

Answer 6

If the sex is great at all times.

Answer 7

The proof is in the "pudding", as they say. If you both leave satisfied...there's your answer.

Answer 8

Have sex, that is your test

Answer 9

you dont until you have sex --- then its also a matter of wanting to please your partner you can overcome most problems if you want to

Answer 10

You just have to do it.