What the hell is difference between just-born baby from another woman and the one that you gave birth to yourself? There are so many homeless children who need parents' love and care but women (I don't know about men) still prefer to give birth themselves so stubbornly... They even agree to suffer artificial impregnation, count days etc. Why? If your wish to have a kid is so big, then why don't you give your love to the one who needs it?
2007-05-22 05:03:49 · 6 answers · asked by Aatami 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I understand where you're coming from ... to a point. I have 4 adopted brothers (2 of which were taken from the worst conditions imaginable - they were beat every day and starved to an unbelievable degree) and 1 adopted sister. Yes, it would be great for more people to adopt.
But, how selfish can you be??? To take away THE GREATEST right and joy in a woman's life. To be pregnant, to grow a child in your body, and then have that child. And to know that the child came from you. There is a difference, and it is a woman's right to have this wonderful, wonderful gift.
I have two children, and plan on adopting a child in the future.
But, you just sound ignorant.
And, one question - how many children do you take care of? How much time and money have you donated to these children? Instead of bashing women for their given right to bear a child ... why don't you spend your time helping in orphanages?
I help take care of adopted children every day. I raise items to send overseas to orphanages.
And I gave birth to my two beautiful children.
What do you know?
I had children, and still have probably done more to help these homeless children than you.
2007-05-22 05:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer74781 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why didnt the mom and dad give the love to that child? Why does it all of the sudden make them okay to have biological children and not us? Its not our fault they ran off and left their children behind. Maybe the government should make these people pay for the children THEY have. I myself realize the need to homeless children BUT ill admit that id rather give birth to my own children. I do however have two step sons, their mom took off on them when the oldest was 3 and ive been mom since, and i love them just like my own. I cannot take everyones children in, or i would. Maybe rich people should care a little more then us middle class people.
2007-05-22 12:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
AHH, I don`t think ALL women want their own bio children..LOL, I am an egg donor and I have donated well over 100 eggs to 5 different couples and they are just happy to have a healthy newborn!! I think it may be the fact that adoption is so difficult. Especially with a newborn infant. A lot of women are choosing to keep their babies today, it`s less of a stigma to be an unwed mother....
2007-05-22 12:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by lost2day 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its not stubborn for a woman to give birth to their own baby. having your own baby is a bit easier then adopting.
adopting can be just as heartbreaking. there is a long, tedious court dates, lots of paperwork. there is also a chance for falling in love with the baby and the birth parents change their mind.
you also need to be approved for it. meaning your past is scrutinized. the agency will see your credit score, health, driving tickets, and CORI. u will need to answer to everything. not many people have a clean past.
2007-05-22 12:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understanf where you are coming from also....But why are people having sex when they know that their is a chance of them having a baby, esp if they dont want one or want to keep it. Plus their is nothing like going through the whole pregnancy thing then getting to hold YOUR OWN baby..
2007-05-22 12:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, honestly, it is just as hard to adopt. and it costs a lot of money that health insurance doesn't cover.
2007-05-22 12:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Murphette 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋