2007-05-22 04:54:17 · 19 answers · asked by Carissa S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Yes, but he/she is too little to be able to stop himself/herself from doing something. Your child still has an immature nervous system and being able to process No and act on it takes a lot more than the little one has at the moment. This is a time for learning, not punishment. Help your child by diverting his/her attention and not allowing him/her to complete a "No" action (like redirecting them BEFORE they touch the outlet). This helps their nervous system develop the catch that will lead to better self-control. As your child nears 2, he/she will have better impulse control but still may not be entirely successful at "No"s. In fact, I'm not even sure my husband has mastered that...Great question! A lot of people misunderstand that just because a child understands no, doesn't mean he/she is capable of stopping their behavior mid-thought.
2007-05-22 05:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Momofthreeboys 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a 13 month old too. I just started a couple days ago. I have his pack n play in his room with no toys in it and if I say no ounce and then he does it again I put him in there for 1 minute. I'm not sure if it's working yet but I am confident persistence is key. I have mostly everything up he can get into. But I cant put the TV away. I think it's OK. I don't suggest using a crib b/c then they could associate be bad with going to bed and you can't make them sit somewhere yeah right LIL.. 1 min is not long and the there nothing that could harm him. When I go get him i go down to his level tell him why and then say sorry and I love you. I know he doesn't completely understand but this is how they learn by being repetitive and persist ant. good luck
2016-05-20 00:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by sebrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a 17 month old and she's starting to understand the meaning of "NO". But at her age I would still say she doesn't fully understand. I think she has an idea that "NO" isn't a good thing. You have to be patient with them!
2007-05-22 05:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by nic c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The little buggers are much more aware of communication and language than we give them credit.
Not only does a 1 year-old understand the word "no," but by that age, they understand your tone and body language when you say "no." That being said, if you often say "no" in w whiney tone or with wishy-washy body language, they're getting more indication that you DON'T mean what you say.. the old trite line that "Your mouth words say "no" but your body says "yes" is very true.
When you say "no" look the little ankle biter in the eyes and say it like you mean it. They'll get the picture.
2007-05-22 05:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The should be able to get a understanding of it. They may not fully understand it. But by that time they should know that when you say NO its not a good thing. But they will test you over and over seeing what they can get away with.
2007-05-22 05:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People train their dogs, cats and just about all the animals in their animal kingdom but they don't train their children...don't figure huh. You bet they can learn the word, "no". Don't deal harshly with the little ones but be very consistent and loving in your training. Children only need 1 or 2 spankings with meaning in their lifetime. Enough so that you get their attention and they know they must answer to you. Don't do the routine of saying no over and over as soon they tune you out. Diversion to another activity is better than constant scolding. Don't be overly controling as it will turn out badly in the long run. Put your hands together and flat in front of you...that represents no training so that they fall apart when they get older. Next cup your hands tightly, that represents over-control so that the minute they get away from you they go hog wild and crazy experiencing everything in life with rebellion. The best way is represented by making a little cup with your hands. That represents just enough guidence with opportunity for them to make errors and learn from them, helps them to see you in a loving way and a good source of guidence for them. When they get older they have a good sense of themselves and a good sense of security so they are not afraid to move out into the world and make something of themselves. There is no greater job in the world than that of being a parent. Our future generations depend on it. Raise them in the nuture of the Lord and you will have a lot less problems when they get older. God bless you, my heart is with you. Mmm
2007-05-22 05:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. The question is, are you confusing your 1 year old about what NO! means?
2007-05-22 05:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, they understand a lot more than we think just keep saying no and take them away from whatever they are not supposed to touch or play with they will get the hint after a few times ( OK many but don't give up and be consistent
2007-05-22 05:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Gracies Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely! now, the problem is they don't want you to know that they understand the word.
My son is 14 months old and he will actually touch things he's not supossed to just to be honory and when we tell him no he smiles at us...aggravating yes, but I think it's just a phase...my suggestion is to be firm when saying it, and be sure to explain to them EVERY time it's used what the word means...that way if they don't understand they soon will.
Good Luck!
2007-05-22 06:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by CJ&Drewsmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your tone and your consistency in showing that you do not approve of a certain action will be evident even to a one year old. Yes, they understand No and they will test you to your limit. Give him/her boundaries and stick to them.
2007-05-22 05:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋