2007-05-22 04:52:41 · 32 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Love, there is always places you can go if you dont have money. If you are truly in love with someone, the money that they make or the money that they have should not matter at all.
2007-05-22 04:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by I need him ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny that you would ask that question on here. I had this exact chance years ago. I chose love. My story: I had a girl trying to seduce me when she won a lottery paid out over the course of 20 years. WHAM there was my chance for money! On the other hand, I had a very pretty, amusing, intelligent and employed female that I knew that would be good for me. This is the one that I chose. REASONING? Every January the first girl will get a check for almost 60,000 bucks. By Feb or at the most March, she is broke and now hasn't the money for actual life! Moral to my story... Money can never replace what a good woman can supply and doesnt last near as long!
2007-05-22 05:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you a true story ..
one of closest friends.. She has 3 choices to marry ( by fate all 3 came propose at the same week )..
She choosed the one who she love and he loves her .. he was damn not just rich .. but so low class and poor ..
After 5 years She asked for Divorce .. he use her money for along time.. and never pay anything ( yet he work ) .. She found out something else..
and then they got divorce.. now her advice for her friends .. to look for money .. and love will come .. at least she has experience .. they ( she and her ex. ) was together for 7 years before marriege ..
Other friend .. got married money .. and one who love her much .. yet now she is asking for divorce.. cause she find something lacking in her life .. ( she have been changing her car every year , having everything she want when she just asked for it )..
A real story 3 is ..
He married her for her money .. yet he likes her .. but her money which grasped the issue of marriege .. now .. they are both happy after 12 years of marriege .. and he honestly now richier than her .. and he admitted .. he will never any one sweetier and he can live with except her .. ( he say that to his close friends behind her back ).
So i can say ..
Love only is not enough .
Money only is not Enough too ..
And my big believe that .. Fate is the main source of marriege .. it comes first .. then the choice become yours, to marry for love or for money ..
I can not live without both ..
Have a great day ..
Good luck ..
..
2007-05-22 05:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by valentino's 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would choose love because if you have money you may not always be happy, you may only think you're happy. But if you marry for love you'll normally be happy a long time.
2007-05-23 03:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by ~Devin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will only marry for love. Money can buy you many things but can not buy happiness. I would rather be happy and in love then to have money or possessions.
2007-05-22 05:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely only marry for love. That is the premise for marriage. If you want money enter into a business contract with someone not a marriage or you will find yourself unhappy, divorced, or both.
2007-05-22 05:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ann B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank God life isn't a one way or the other proposition...I wouldn't marry someone who was poor, but I would also never marry someone whom I didn't love. Impossible...I'd rather remain single if it was one or the other...I grew up poor, and I am never going there again, so I don't feel in any way bad about saying I wouldn't marry poor, but I know life is very long when you spend time with people you don't love. It isn't worth marrying if they are the choices.
2007-05-22 05:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
*Money.*
.Because (sorry to be negative) but I have never had much luck with love anyways. And it seems to me, that no matter how much you love someone...and you can put your heart and soul into the relationship to make it work...somehow and someway that person always ends up screwing you over.
.Whether it's by cheating or what have you.
.So personally I would rather have Money than Love, granted yes...I don't believe it buys happiness...but either way I would be miserable right? I mean if I was in love and I was being cheated on...that would make me unhappy...and even though I could have a ton of money, I would still be unhappy.
.SO it's really a lose lose situation for me anyways.
........you know?
.....but that is just my opinion and how I feel.
.Sorry for being negative.
........I am going to have to go with money, b/c of my luck.
2007-05-22 05:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i choose love! i was with a guy that had money and we are no longer together. just remember money doesnt buy love! people that have money are very selfish if you ask me! but a little money is a must to help out with bills and raising children!
2016-05-20 00:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strictly for love. I can make my own money.
2007-05-22 07:36:49 · answer #10 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋