2007-05-22 04:36:24 · 21 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
know that your family are and will always be there for you no matter what! unconditionally!
Respect yourself and others.
Life is hard but you are strong and this strength is what keeps you safe from peer pressure.
You know whats right and you know whats wrong and we trust you to make the correct choices.
Some mistakes can and will effect you for the rest of your life so always think think think of the outcome of your choices and decisions.
Good Luck
2007-05-22 04:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by WICCA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. If it doesn't feel right dont do it. Remember that your "old" mother was 13 once and you can always talk to her no matter what your friends say. Your friends don't have to know the conversations you 2 have. Stay in school, find your niche whether its arts or sports and persue it with passion. Tell her she's smart, pretty, and can do what ever she wants as a career. Make sure she is using birth control if she is sexually active, If not, then bless your stars. She needs to know the facts about safe sex and that abstinance is the best option. She should have the vaccine against the Papiloma virus (genital warts) and most of all.... Remember , you are her mother , not her friend as in her peer group. but a friend as in someone to talk to. Show her trust and respect. I'f thats the kind of thing you want to say to her.
2007-05-22 11:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by ogopogo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parenting is now at the very important stage where a parent should support his/her daughter whenever she asks for. Which means a parent should be like the riverbank while a teenager is like a river always flowing towards her/his Destination. Just providing the path leading towards the Goal a teenager aims at. Be her Best Friend not a parent at this age. And believe me the things will change.
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Thanking you.
2007-05-22 12:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Winiart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you mean in general than the best kind of advice is to tell you 13 year old to be her self,dont give into peer pressure, dont do drugs, and be abstinant.
2007-05-22 12:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will come a time, if it hasn't already, when you will think that your parents are idiots and your friends are your life. Just remember, when all is said and done - that few people are still friends with the people they knew at age 13, but families last forever.
2007-05-22 11:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even smart people make bad decisions, so don't assume just because you are smart you will be immune to making bad decisions. Think things over carefully and really think about the consequences of your decisions BEFORE making one. Don't be afraid to go to someone, parents, aunt, uncle, teacher and ask for input/advice.
2007-05-22 11:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know about mistakes you made when you were her age so that she knows that youve been in her same situation yourself. Talk to her alot and keep an open relationship with her.
Let her know that she can talk to you about ANYTHING and that youll be non-judgemental. When shes out with friends find a non-intrusive way to check in, even if its just calling her to let her know you love her.
If she knows she can talk to you about ANYTHING (even when she makes mistakes) thats what shes likely to do. You and I both know, having once been thirteen ourselves, that it can sometimes be scary and confusing. Just let her know that you are there for her no matter what and that you love her.
2007-05-22 11:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by tjsnfrd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what your looking for. I think you should be upfront and frank about it everything.
Sex: can have major consequences. Pregnancy, disease, rape.
Drugs: they are detrimental to anyone's health, let her watch a documentary on recovering drug addicts, they never truly recover and she can see how they ruin a persons life.
Peer pressure: Be her friend not a judge and jury and maybe she will be able to talk to you about issues that arise.
2007-05-22 11:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying she is pregnant or just asking about advice to give her?
If its about advice to just give her and she is not pregnant tell her not to have sex. That seems to be the teenage trend these days.
2007-05-22 11:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Stand 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many decisions can sacrifice a lifetime for a moment, its always better to wait another day.
2007-05-22 11:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Momofthreeboys 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋