How can I get a guy in the mood?

Question

My bf is kinda dumb. How can I drop the hint that I want to make out and do the touchie feeling thing with him when were alone and in public without being called a whore?

Answer 1

very easy but does he won't to mess about abit and if he does you can slowley wisper in is ear's and work your way all over is body and then in return he can slowly move down your body and do the things you like JUST INJOY yourself.

Answer 2

Kiss him... run your hands on the back of his head, rub his thigh... Ive never met a guy thats dumb enough to not know someone wants to do something lol.... you shouldnt get called a whore.. and if they call you one of freakin well as long as your not one. Dont matter what other people think... they are just makin you center of attention callin you that... they are jelouse

Answer 3

hahahahaha.....WOW...when in publis please dont try to slob him down... I cant explain to u what to do but i will give u an example.

Ok when me and my bf are out in public we hold hands, and then i will take the other hand and rub (soft and sexy) his arm or the hand im holding. Or sometimes when were like sitting and talking i will rub his face and kiss him on the lips, but if you guys havent kissed yet then do a cheek or forehead kiss.

Ok if you guys havent held hands at all, then when u walk next to each other sort of rub your hands on his, on the slide..:)

Ok when your in privacy, sit close, hopefully he will put his arm around you, touch his chest or hold his hand or something. Most guys will open up more when you in privacy so be open when you alone..

Answer 4

If he's like most men just saying hi will get him in the mood, if you want him to know that you are in the mood try giving him a nice kiss. If he can't figure it out after that he's too dumb for you.

Answer 5

Some guys just aren't into the PDA thing. You need to find out where your bf stands. You need to TALK to him and tell him you'd like to be more touchie-feely in public.

In private, touch him in subtle ways - squeeze his butt playfully, or kiss his cheek, rub his arm. If he doesn't catch on, then just say - hey! i want to show you something in the bedroom! :) hee hee.

Answer 6

Mandy i would be out the door and find a man who treats me like the Queen I am... To be called a whore is a big no no in my book by my lover... he does not respect you.....or love you...something is wrong in this relationship. Best wishes...

Answer 7

First off, don't do it in public. It's tacky, and it will make him more uncomfortable.

Second, talk to him? If you cannot talk to him, lose him. I don't care what kind of hottie you think he is, if he can't start a fire now, he never will. If you can't talk to him afterwards, there is no point in going to bed with him.

Rule of thumb: This is as good as it gets. You want him to change, you think that you can change him, but it won't work.

Answer 8

Mandy, why are you dating a dumb guy? If he's not intelligent enough to know when you'd like to make out with him then he wont ever be considerate enough to know when you need anything else from him. Unless you are dumb yourself, I'd say you are wasting your time.

Answer 9

how about write little notes like - "can i kiss you now?" or "wanna cuddle?" etc etc.

Keep them on you when you see him and give them to him when in private or public.

Eventually he will get it. If he asks you about it tell him its because you love him or care for him and want to show it.

Im sure he will appreciate it.It dont make you a whore.Its what gf and bf do

Answer 10

Kiss the back of his neck, rub his inner thy if that doesn't work tell him straight up. I WANT TO DO IT!!!!!!! ps don't worry about being called a whore that's your man you supposed to be a freak anyway.