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I have been with my boyfriend for 6yrs i have still not finished during sex...Any helpful hints or suggestions?? I feel like its me and not him.

2007-05-22 03:28:56 · 7 answers · asked by kelly c 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

its him.

2007-05-22 03:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

It's not either one of ya'll what you need to do is sit with your man and tell him what's going on. that you need some extra help finishing. Tell him to foreplay a little longer to get you warmed up or something that you know will help you finish it is all about communication and if you are too shy to talk with someone that you have been with for 6 years then maybe there is something more wrong then you just not finishing during sex.

2007-05-22 10:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tabatha 1 · 1 0

I was like that too.. basically there are women out there that need that extra work, try addinga vibrator or a vibrating cock-ring cos that way it will stimulate you and him, the hardest part (apart from the obvious) would be getting him to wait till you finish cos otherwise i think that us females lose whatever climax we were getting...
So toys and get him to go down south maybe??
Dont be affraid to try all new things, seriously it can spice your relationship up and excite you two more. and most of all dont think of it as a "job" cos the you wont have fun at all.
Also you could picture somone else either another male or female that is doing something to you as well as your husband.. its all fun and he doesnt even need to know.. just as long as it excites you and he will have more fun outta that too..

2007-05-22 10:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie R. 2 · 1 0

There are MANY women that can't climax during regular sex. You and your BF need to explore ways of getting you there at the same time that he does. It's awkward talking about it at first but have you considered bringing some 'toys' into the mix? Perhaps he needs to spend more time with foreplay? This problem can be solved but you both need to work on it.

2007-05-22 10:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0 0

Does he care if you finish or not? Have you ever had an orgasm with anyone else, this does include by yourself?Personally I would have to seek out a new "friend" on the side. If he hasn't figured out how to please you yet he never will and that could be a very "frustrating" relationship.

2007-05-22 10:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by dee101 2 · 0 1

6 yrs and u never climax or ne thing? its got to be something hes doing!! try different positions or toys or even some 4play b4! has he ever eaten you out? that usually works

2007-05-22 10:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

It`s definitely him!!!!!!!

2007-05-22 10:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by MISTY 7 · 0 1

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