iraq for 15 months,is their anybody out there who made it through 15 months without cheating and been faithfull.is that possible anybody here been through the deployments without cheating
2007-05-22 03:22:15 · 15 answers · asked by ortizkristian 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Wow you must not really love your girlfriend if you have to ask this question. Listen closely...SHE IS GOING TO FIGHT FOR YOUR FREEDOM. That should be enough to keep you abstinent!
EDIT: The asker is talking about HIMSELF, not his girlfriend...sigh.
2007-05-22 03:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Moo Moo Mair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I made it through 22 months deployment within a 3 yr period and in between that...he was gone for 6 months school and another 1 month training without the thought of cheating on my husband while he was serving in a war zone and even while he was away training still in country thousands of miles from home...while I was in a place too far to even fly to visit friends and family...a place where it was dark and cold 8 months out of the year. If you love someone being faithful isn't something you have to "TRY" to do. Keep busy. It is up to you and how deeply you feel about your girlfriend. Good luck and God bless!
2007-05-22 03:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Marriedtothearmy 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person... I made it through 13 months in Korea and 12 months in Iraq without cheating.. Some of the people I knew couldnt even last a week though.. So its up to the person and their will to stay faithful... My ex couldnt do it, hence the word ex....
2007-05-22 03:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i see none of these people know what you are really talking about.my husband has been over in afghanistan for 15 months and counting and i have been very faithful to him.i also had to go through a 6 month tour with him and i was faithful .see i can tell you there is seperate sleeping quarters and everything over in iraq so you really dont need to worry about her cheating its more you that she needs to worry about cheating
2007-05-22 03:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by marines_sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person who is going to cheat will do so regardless of where they are and what situationthey are in. Military service and deployments have NOTHING to do with whether ro not a person cheats.. whether they are the one deployed, or the one left behind.
You either trust them, or you don't.
2007-05-22 05:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. Aside from popular belief, NOT everyone in the military cheats in Iraq!!
2007-05-22 03:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by MAGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through two year long deployments and who knows how many several month long schools with my husband, and we have both been faithful to one another.
I have seen plenty of marriages buckle due to relationships being formed in the desert, especially in really remote locations. You will just have to trust your GF and she will have to trust you. Best of luck to you both!
2007-05-22 03:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is a marine and i'm 3 months into a 7 month dep and it's not easy, but we manage b/c we love each other.
it's called porn and vibrators:)
now, my situation is a bit easier b/c i have our son to take care of. my life gets so busy when my husband is gone.
you will know that it's love when being around other attractive people makes you miss your gf.
last weekend my friends and i got babysitters and went to dinner and drinks. i was chatting up a bunch of cute young marines and frankly, they all made me miss my husband.
i had no thoughts of hooking up with any of them.
all i kept thinking, when i looked at them, was, why can't you be my husband??
so, it is COMPLETELY possible, but the only thing that matters is....is it possible for you guys.
i wish you all the luck and the best.
take care.
2007-05-22 03:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen... you definitely dont need to worry about her cheating in Iraq. There is NOTHING to do there, and they climate is miserable. She will be busy busy busy... theres no time to cheat. She will probably spend most of her free time writing, or thinking about home. Dont sweat it, and surely dont bother her with it because she has enough to think about.
2007-05-22 04:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Mom of 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy but people have done it.
When you think it is rough doing with out think about what she is doing without while you are in comfortable bed.
Put in context and decide what is more important your relationship or your animal needs.
2007-05-22 03:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋