Well I have this crazy crush on a Russian singer, his name is Dima Koldun. I am 14 and he is 22. (I am russian as well, though i live in europe) Its freaking me out :( cause all i do in my free time is look at his pictures and vidios. It started from the eurovision contest since I thought he was really hot. Then I decided to look at him on the internet, saw how cool he is and now i cant forget about him at any time..If firstly i could notice in which photos he looks hot and in which he doesnt, now I really dont care, i love him on any photo or video. I try to think about something else but all i've been doing for the past week is creating images about us meeting later in my life, and us being together...i just really need him and want to be with him. I do not know wtf is wrong with me, im not stupid, i know it's not really possible but..i cant help it. I havent liked anyone for 2 years and then suddenly BOOM - fell in love with someone who doesnt even know i exsist. Plz help!!
2007-05-22 02:57:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really feel like crying, i just feel like i love him, im probably wrong...you say you also were in this situation, how long did it last for? Because with me its just been a week and i feel sooo sad and bad because there is only a really tuny chance that i will ever be with him...when will it be over??
2007-05-22 02:58:02 · update #1
We all are in love with a celebrity at some point. When I was 15, I was in love with 2pac. I just knew he was meant for me. I was going to LA to find him when I graduated because we are kindred souls. I just knew it could work. I had all his CDs and knew all the words. He was talking to me in his songs. Then oneday, it was over. He was killed, and I cried like I knew him, personally. If I could, I would have went to the funeral. Sometimes you have connections with people you don't know, but the key words are "people you don't know".
You don't know who these people are for real. They have an image to protect, and you are supposed to be in love with them, that's how they make their money.
You're young. You will learn. I still have my common crushes on celebs, but I know I won't move out of state in search of them. They are people just like us.
Besides, older men tend to take advantage of young girls, because you are naive.
I am sure there are some cute boys your age that wouldn't mind getting to know you better.
2007-05-30 00:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maeflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called obsession - almost everyone goes through it, it is a lot rougher for females, and at the time it definitely feels like you are in love, as obsession is what "in love" is all about. As you grow and learn, you will find the difference between 'in love' and actual 'love', honey. It is so hard on you right now because this is obviously your first and the first is always the hardest to deal with and to get over. Some you never do, you only get to the place where you are calm enough to function. I am forever obsessed with Sephiroth from FF7 (a game character, sad), I mean, I have a scroll of him on my wall and his file in my computer is the largest. and Davey Havok of A.F.I. is my newest, since I first saw him, which was before I heard him - once I heard him it got worse. When I watched him in action... well, I spend lots of time watching my DVD and ogling pics of him. Now I am learning about him as a real person, and I appreciate him more every day, so relax and enjoy it, darling - it's normal yes.
2007-05-22 03:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Edhelosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be this crazy. Perhaps you should show equal interest in an education, maybe you'll learn something. Sorry to be so sharp, but you young people think everything is love concerning the opposite sex. And now you want to cry. Just wait until you have a kid, that's REAL pain. Or try taking care of yourself, as opposed to your parents doing it. That'll make you cry more. I gaurantee there will be someone else hotter next year. Get over yourself.
2007-05-22 03:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thousands of girls feel the same way about a singer or group all the time. You don't have a chance of being with the guy, just hang out with your friends and get over it. In a couple of years some real guy that you can actually hook up with is going to sweep you off your feet.
I'm sorry to be blunt, but you shouldn't waste so much time thinking about this guy that you can't have.
2007-05-22 03:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Oprah Winfrey, Julia Roberts, George Clooney, Reese Witherspoon just to name a few
2016-04-01 02:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just another "crazy in love" (Horny pervert)teen. You are not in love, but merely inflactuated. Did you know that your behaviour is defined as stalking, so you a mini stalker. Come on, he's 22 and its what will you do with him even if it was legal to go out with him?
i thought that guys were worse but guess i was wrong.
2007-05-22 03:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by loxzibit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry i dont think its love --- you dont know him well enough for that --- its an infatuation and will go away in a short time ---- enjoy it while its there --- best wishes
im much older than you are and i have been captivated by the beauty of an actress --- i know its nothing more than an attraction based on looks and nothing to do with the person so i just enjoy her work and go on with my life
2007-05-22 03:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is not really chance that you will even be with him! But, i understand your feelings: he is the love of your dreams. It would be better to love a real guy. However, make a wish for him and for your love. http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/
it's new, it's free, and who knows what will happen?
Good luck!
2007-05-22 03:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to me many peoples girl don't take it as a mistake or a problem.
every celebrity has their own secret lovers but i promise you that one day it will be gone. specially in this age cause adolescent is approaching you.
2007-05-29 21:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by lavita k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, that's not love, that's obsession! or maybe infatuation.
I'm telling, you will feel like an idiot if you'll fell really in-love and know the difference. hahaha...
2007-05-22 03:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by (sinner*saint) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋