Me and my ex boyfriend of about a year ago have been chatting lately, however i dont know what his intentions are. I do still love him to bits. I just think that maybe i need to have an outright talk with him about whats going on, because not knowing is driving me mad, What do you think. xxxx
2007-05-22 02:50:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah i forgot to say he calls me babe, puts kisses on the end of his messages, says love you lots etc. xx
2007-05-22 02:52:04 · update #1
And the reason i mention the way he talks to me, is because thats what it was like when we were together.
2007-05-22 02:59:51 · update #2
Yes were both single btw. xx
2007-05-22 03:08:34 · update #3
I think he still has feelings for you as well, by the sounds of it. You need to speak to him and establish what you both want, whether it be getting back together or just some fun. That way, you both know where you stand and hopefully no one will get hurt. Remember, although this all feels good, you did split up for a reason and you do want to make sure you have resolved whatever it was and that it will not happen again. Good Luck! x
2007-05-22 02:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him be honest, maybe he's feeling the same, dont get upset if you dont get the answer back that you want to hear, just take it with an open mind, and dont appear to 'full on' with this guy, he may get a bit scared lol! it might be an idea to take into account the reason you split up in the first place, think things over and then see what you think?!
2007-05-22 10:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by roundtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bluntly ask him does he either want you or not,if he starts messing round with the 'i dont know what i want out of life' etc then hes sending you mixed emotions and if thats the case then your better off not having contact with him coz neither of you are giving each other what you want and you are also blocking the way for some one else to love you as you both will never seek love with some one else as long as you both treat each other like this
2007-05-22 10:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your ex boyfriend single at the moment?
If not, run a mile!
If he is, meet up with him and talk to him openly about what he wants from you!
Simple as that :-)
xx Emmie
2007-05-22 10:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may as well just bite the bullet and say it to him hun - if you're both single and you think theres something still there then why waste anymore time wondering!!!
Go for it!
xx
2007-05-22 10:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it you might aswell as you have nothing to loose, just ask yourself one question - Why is he your ex? There must be some reason for you guys breaking up
2007-05-22 10:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on get real! you know the answer to your own question all ready. JUST ASK HIM WHATS GOING ON!
2007-05-22 10:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he after, I can smell a rat here
2007-05-22 09:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by aslan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just go girl
2007-05-22 09:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get it out of him first.
2007-05-22 09:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kuruhh. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋