I have known both of the girls for along time? They are both also my best friends and they were the ones who brought it up. Is it still bad or not the girls are 16 and 18. Iam 17 almost 18 in November.
2007-05-22 02:20:31 · 28 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG! That's awful! Really, don't do it.
2007-05-22 02:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by engel18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Johnny....you seem like a nice guy who is having a difficult time passing up what seems to be an 'attractive offer' on the part of the two virgins, but I urge you to 're-think' this matter. They're young, naive, and have no idea what they're getting into. Sexual relations (w/one of them alone) would be enough to have a negative impact on a good friendship. They have remained virgins this long for a reason....they're probably both hoping for a special guy that will cherish them. You described the girls as 'best friends'. Therefore, you need to treat them as such and do what is in their best interest. Sure the 'nookie' sounds delicious.....but you can't go back after this experience. What I mean is that there will be no 'undoing it'. Tell them the fantasy is too much to think about, but the reality would probably never measure up. Pass it up, my friend.
2007-05-22 02:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
normally i would say if they are OK with it why not but it is their first time keep in mind do you want their first time to be no offense but sorta ruined i think their first time should be with someone one on one not a threesome and also it should be special.i say it would be OK for their second time but not first time if you truly are best friends then let their first time be special with a guy they care for or whatever but don't ruin it by having a threesome where they probably wont know what they are doing and what fun would that be?but then again that is my opinion besides friends shouldn't have sex with friends could create problems in the future however if you decide to do this be safe good luck.16 is a little young for sex please for their sake let their first time be special.they probably don't know what they are getting themselves into and that is not fair for them after that happens you will never look at each other the same way
2007-05-22 02:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tornedeaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will....
1. I wouldnt want any girl to lose their V-card in a 3some. Why???? because loseing your vcard is something that girls remember for their whole life and it should be with ONE person that they have really strong feelings for... Not some guy they wanna show a good time to!
2. If their you bestfriends then this probably isnt a good idea.. What is things dont go so great then this whole thing could mess uup your guys relationship. and if their really your bestfriends then you wouldnt want that!
3. all three of you are to young to be trying this type of thing at all..... just having sex with one is bed enough at this age but two at the same time isnt any better!
2007-05-22 02:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by bnrl_shell88 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no longer many women have threesomes, no. From a woman's viewpoint, she will want 2 adult males, she does not opt to proportion a guy with yet another female. possibly she did no longer get excitement from, I propose she does not opt to attitude the concern. possibly she became inebriated, possibly she felt pressurised or possibly she did get excitement from it yet does not opt to do it returned. regardless of if a woman likes them relies upon on the lady and the threesome. this is like the rest.
2016-11-04 23:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People's first times are always a little awkward, but for their sake, I don't think it should be awkward because the guy took a break to have sex with the other woman in bed. Since they haven't done it before, I'm guessing they don't know what they are getting into anyway.
If they want to try it later on, by all means. But first they need to lose their virginity with just one other person in the room.
2007-05-22 02:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To begin with the 16 yr. old is underage!! You may find out after the fact that you will lose 2 best friends. And besides, are you doing this to have bragging rights? You should have respect for your friends and that ain't doing it!! If you do it, don't be stupid - USE PROTECTION!
2007-05-22 02:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Flat no. Even numbers are best in these events. Their first experience should not be, "take a number and wait, please."
You have not considered the possibility that they are using this idea to cover the fact that they may be interested in going to bed with each other.
2007-05-22 02:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel H 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not okay unless the two girls are consenting that they both want to. That will be a memorable experience for the rest of their lives. If you have any morals, I would say don't do it. But if you all want to, then that is on you guys.
2007-05-22 02:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Babylesley 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This sounds like a troll to me!!!
On the off chance that this is real, I'd say it sounds more like a chance to disappoint 2 girls in one night. Forget about it.
2007-05-22 02:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
as long as you are all consenting adults above the age of 16 then i'd say go for it as long as everyone involved is comfortable with the situation talk about the issues you have first witth the girls and ask them if there is anything in particular you can do to make them more comfortable, remember to stay safe and rubber up Good luck and have FUN
2007-05-22 02:26:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋