i am physically attracted to my boss and very strong attraction. earlier he used to say the same thing but now he doesn't. i have given him subtle hints about it but he doesn't seem to notice. i was thinking to be bold n tell him straight away that i want to make love to him. should there be a environment n mood for that or should i just go ahead. i feel embareesed sometimes when i think of telling him but am a very bold gal so wanna give it a try.
2007-05-22 02:06:26 · 17 answers · asked by aint_i_hoot_madonna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey am leaving this job in a month's time..plus v hv been close before too..its just that earlier he was eager n i was not..
2007-05-22 02:14:05 · update #1
Go for it. I had some office romance in the past. The only thing is that other collegues WILL find out. No matter how hard you try to conceal it. People can just tell. Whether it is the flirty smiles the next day or just having closer contact at work.
It is the steamiest and most daring thing to make love on the desk after hours or to make a lunch date out of it and c u m back with that 'just been done' look.
Just as long as you don't mind others knowing, it can be a GREAT experience.
2007-05-22 02:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting involved with your boss is not a very good idea. Sexual Harassment policies at your place of employment probably forbid even the appearance of impropriety. Add to that the fact that most businesses frown on any management / employee fraternization, and you could just be the kiss of death for his career. If you must pursue this, then at least transfer out of his department first, or find another job.
2007-05-22 02:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u were staying in that job i would have said no cause u should never mix ur business life with your social life but since u are leaving y not. Just go and tell him straight and take it from there!
2007-05-22 02:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real situation I'd say stay away from your boss! Nothing good will become of it. Never date anyone at work -best advice I ever received. You might lose your job. Coworkers will find out and lose respect for you also.
2007-05-22 02:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you like. It is your life after all. Just be sure to bare all the consequences when they arise. Good luck 'very bold gal'.
2007-05-22 02:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think no dont tell him
there could be a reason he stopped showing interest, maybe he's involved now or he isnt looking for a relationship or whatever. if you gonna tell not having any expectations, then i say go right ahead. you just never know .........
2007-05-22 02:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by yonke q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just lay on his desk wearing nothing but a smile. I think he'll get the hint!
2007-05-22 02:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you value your job? If things go sour with him then you'll have to deal with him every day. It's usually not a good idea.
2007-05-22 02:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will have problems with co-workers if they find out about u r office romance believe me they will find out.
2007-05-22 02:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
never mix business with pleasure
I would not get involve.
He could think like blackmail if you don not get what you want
2007-05-22 02:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by pcc122 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋