not only did i find out that he was cheating on my friend but also scamming her! she has proof of adultry (his wife called her) and she has receipts for sending him money to get back to iraq from missouri(it was western union and he signed for it). it was not a gift but a loan and he said that he would repay her back. they had already broken up and he had no other option. his wife told her that she is not the only one. too many of these guys do this and get away with it. it's not vengence or anything she just wants her money back, and she DEFINITLEY does not want him back. thanks
2007-05-21 22:52:02 · 14 answers · asked by candacejoy2002 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
One thing at a time.
The money. Does your friend have anything, signed, that shows the money was a loan? If not, then as far as the law is concerned it was a gift. She could TRY to take it to civil court, but I don't think that it will go anywhere.
The adultery. If she doesn't have PHYSICAL proof, then it's his word against hers, and nothing will be done.
I agree that PEOPLE are doing this, and that it needs to stop, but don't think that it's just people in the military.
2007-05-21 23:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by My world 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh I wish I had the answer to this one. I am in the same situation. I was involved with a man in the military and lent him some money to get home to Michigan for a family thing and he refuses to pay me back. The only advice I can give you is to call the mans comander (the head honcho of his military unit) This will work if you call enough times because they will most likely punish him if he doesnt take care of the problem. Try that....the man I was dealing with got out of the military shortly after so that didnt work for me. Just get ahold of someone on the military base and go from there.
2007-05-21 22:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by helicopterjen 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Simple answer...It is called the Chaplin and the Chain of Command. That is not a god thing and the Command will not look on that in a good light.
2007-05-22 01:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF In fact you are for real and not just another one of these anti- American troop blasters. I'll tell you what I think. I think If your friend was dumb enough to loan money to a guy she obviously does not know well enough, then I don't feel sorry for her. Maybe she will be a little more careful in the future. Case Closed.
2007-05-21 23:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by SGT. D 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
If he owes her money and she has proof of the loan she can take him to small claims court. She can talk to his CO but once again she has to have proof that she loaned him money. A receipt doesn't mean it was a loan.
2007-05-21 22:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by kgee 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Contact the installation or base Inspector General office. They may refer you to criminal investigation division (CID).
2007-05-22 05:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Nada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call his commander, he will get in a lot of trouble.
2007-05-22 03:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by djchilo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it, what go's around comes around but no need for you to get involved in anybodies drama. Or tell her to threaten the guy saying she's gonna tell, and he might pay up
2007-05-21 23:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She needs to see her lawyer and meet with C. I. D. as well as J. A. G. to file charges, that is the only way she will get a penny back.
2007-05-21 22:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by sonofmary 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I say do what My World said. Best of luck to your friend!!!
2007-05-22 00:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Ticked off American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋