I found pic of a bra on my boyfriends cell phone, should I say something to him?

Question

we were out & about with some friends and I was messing with his cell phone trying to take a pic of our frens and after I took the pic it redirected me to the gallery on his cell where I noticed a pic of a "big" bra hanging on what looks to be a antanne of a car.
should this be something to worry about?
should I ask him about it or leave it be?
suggestions?

I wasnt prying either.
and this bra sure as heck wasn't mine.

Answer 1

ask him b4 its late but with a sens of humor
as a joking not directly and with serious conversation

Answer 2

What does your gut tell you? I think you already know if something is happening or not. Changes in the relationship, how much time is spent together, etc. If you don't feel like there are those types of changes, it could be old - did you check the date stamp? I know I HATE being accused of something I did not do - but if you feel there is something going on, I would use his phone again and then say "hey - what is this?" If he feels you were stewing on it and asking strangers over the Internet he might feel like you are a little coo-coo. Listen to your instcincts. If you don't feel like he is mistreating you or not spending time with you, let it pass.

Answer 3

As long has he not wearing it why should you be worried.

Do you really think that a bra tied to a car antenna is a sign of cheating? How imature.

You should say nothing as whats on his phone is his business, what would you think if he went looking through your phone gallery and saw something.

Answer 4

um...would it be wrong to say "who cares??" cause really who cares.

either u downloaded that pic, got it from a friend or actually saw it himself and found it funny either way its just a pic.

i have had mens cells with worse on it i mean close to porn looking pics. men are men they have such things so what.

ask yourself this: by confronting him right, what do u hope to achieve?? a guilty face, nonchalant shrug, an embarrassed laugh, a naughty wink and smile?? anger that u kinda accidentaly snooped??

either way u not gonna get the reaction u are looking for so why bother?? just a thought

Answer 5

so what ? and plus do u think he's so stupid to keep a pic of a bra for a girl on his phone and ur with him? and its not that big deal.. just mess with him .. and act like u dont care ..

Answer 6

depends if you trust him i say leave it it is normal for guys to have stuff like that on our phone just be lucky it wasn't a heap of porno ya never no he and some mates could have seen it though it was funny so he took a pic of it

Answer 7

does he knows that you are checking out his cell phone, if he does, then i thk you can put the question across in a light and funny way, otherwise just forget the issue cos he may not like the idea tat you are looking thru his stuffs....he wont buy ur story that you 'accidentally' access to it :)

darling dun fret!!

Answer 8

i think first off you need to ask yourself
"do you really trust him"

then think of the ups and downs of the situation if their are more downs then maybe you should bring it up in a calming surrounding make sure not to freak out before knowing exactly his story


now only if i could get my gf to do that ; )

well best of luck

Answer 9

When you pry, this is what happens.

It is a hard lesson learned.

Now, you have to ask him.

Answer 10

i highly doubt that's anything to worry about.. it was probably just something funny he saw somewhere or something stupid that him and his friends did.. lol if you are REALLY concerned about it.. ask him.. but again, i don't think it's anything to worry about..