when i'm with her, i feel really happy but, once she leaves and i'm not able to talk to her, I feel almost nervous. I hate it, I want to be able to just relax and not have this strange feeling.
2007-05-21 19:10:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow a pair of balls.
2007-05-21 19:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by lambdachi525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're insecure, it's pretty bad. Having this happen can lead to bad jealousy and very uneasy feelings whenever she's going somewhere with alot of guys and you're not going with her. I'd suggest you work on yourself and become less dependent. This is just the stepping stool to a level of really bad emotions. Cease immediately. It's ok to miss her but when it makes you nervous when she's not around it's going to be no good.
2007-05-21 19:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to figure out the things you used to do that were very relaxing and fun and when she is not around do it. Best of all try hanging out with your friends and do something impulsive every once in awhile. Just try as much as possible to have fun and you might be surprised by how relaxing that can be.
I hope this helps you...
2007-05-21 19:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want an assurance. yes, assurance that you are the only person she loves. . I've been in the same situation like yours before. Learn to trust her. If she really loves you, she wont do things that will make you feel strange and uneasy.
2007-05-21 19:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it right now. you're being obsessive and it will make her want to run for the hills if you start acting weird. nobody likes a "clingon" and that goes double for when the bf/gf starts idolizing and stalking.
see a therapist or get into a support group. you are heading to a scary place.
2007-05-21 19:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by chieko 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do need to work on this.
It will only get worst.
Get help now, before you become controlling
of where she Is, and who she's talking to when
she's not with you.
You need a Hobby to, It might help alittle.
2007-05-21 19:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a doll out of her hair. As soon as she leaves, just put the doll on the couch beside you and pretend its her. Just don't put the moves on it, that would make it creepy. booya!
2007-05-21 19:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep a photo of her in your wallet...but this is not the permanent solution boy, you have had to think about the things in your life other than your girlfriend and keep yourself busy.
2007-05-21 19:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww you just miss her, thats all. Just find something to do in your spare time
2007-05-21 19:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by stormfire_06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r maybe too possesive abt her...take it easy!!!
2007-05-21 19:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋