My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months and he broke up with his ex roughly about 3 months before he met me. It was the ex girlfriend who decided to break up with him but she won't stop calling him. He promised that he won't picked up her calls anymore if im not happy with it. I don't get why he had to go out and see her at 12am in the morning.
2007-05-21 17:56:32 · 27 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to burst your bubble but you sound like the rebound chick.
By telling you he is going to see his ex at midnight shows that he doesn't want to be the one to break your heart but at the same time wants you to have reason to end things with him. This way, he could get back together with the one who broke his heart.
If you want your EX back - you do not end ties!
If your OVER your EX there is NO COMMUNICATION WHAT SO EVER!!!
2007-05-21 18:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If girls often use hidden messages, boys usually talk more directly and dont mean anything else they obviously say : he asked permission, cos he knew it could hurt you and if there was a reason for you to fear something, he wouldn't have asked : he would have just met her secretly. But if it makes you feel uncomfortable, say him. There is nothing wrong with it. He cares what u feel (or he wouldn't have said anything), and he will understand. And finally, see this as an opportunity to talk (in a quiet way : no drama please !) to talk about it with him. An ex has nothing to do in your life. How would he react if your ex always happened in your life like these pop-up windows on a PC ?
2007-05-21 18:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but that boyfriend is an idiot. calling you at midnight to tell you that he's going to go see his ex... he's not worth it! move on! there's plenty of other guys out there that will treat you better..
think about it, if you've only been dating for 3 months, and this is the way he treats you, what more do you have to put up with in the future?? obviously his relationship with his ex isn't totally over if the ex is still calling him...
2007-05-21 18:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by crzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big mistake getting with someone who just got out of a relationship 3 months before getting with you. They aren't over each other.
2007-05-21 18:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You no why he wanted to see her,he wanted to have sex with her one more time to see if the two of them are really over.I no he told you they just talk and that was it and you want to believe that.Do you really deep down believe he went to meet her just to talk.
For one thing guys don't talk they want to fu ck and that is what he had on his mind.You will let him get away with it just like every other girl does,and that is why they do it because they no you will believe anything they tell you.That is how men have been getting away with it for so long.
2007-05-21 18:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious. I just have to say that his relationship with her is definitely not a closed issue. I would have some doubts about his loyalty to you. 12am? Was it a life or death situation? If so then she should've called 911. Other than that...he is full of crap! He only asked you so he would feel less guilt. He wasen't thinking about you, he was thinking about himself.
2007-05-21 18:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all I can say is GOOD BYE! at that time of night what would he have to go to her rescue?? and Ex is an Ex for a reason if you can't let that go then he should not have gotten into another relationship until he was sure of you
2007-05-21 18:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by happy girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously he's still hung up with his ex. just think about your relationship with him he may be just using you for a rebound. if he cares for you then he shouldn't see her ex gf anymore, i mean what's the point? they're through and your his present gf. thats not right at all.
2007-05-21 18:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by kaatje 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you ask him? Only he can tell you. It may have beena an emergency, or she might want him back. I would not tolerate that. I would have said that if it is an emergency, I will take a ride with you.
2007-05-21 18:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might still have feeling for her maybe not they could just be friends now....but sounds like if he was picking up the phones calls and you told him you weren't happy with that he sounds like he might still like her...but if so there are other guys out there maybe not like him ur thinking but theres ones that will have feelings for his girl and only his girl.
Best wishes !
2007-05-21 18:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋