Help me please I went and I got a tatto on my foot and he hasn't seen it how do I tell him that I have one. ever since I got it i've been wearing soxs at home and I'm the type that I love being barefooted I do need some ideas
2007-05-21 17:28:16 · 36 answers · asked by MisMac 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
I'm a bit concerned that you are afraid to tell your husband that you made a decision about something you wanted and did it. I hope he doesn't have that much control over you. Just tell him, and if he objects in anyway make sure he knows that, that is a problem with himself that he needs to get over right away.
2007-05-21 17:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't going to answer because it's all been said already, but what the heck -
My first reaction was the same as somebody's:
Get that sock off your foot! The new tattoo should not be covered like that.
Secondly, I can't imagine not telling my husband. I guess I spend so much time planning my tattoos, that just going and getting one and my husband not knowing (let alone not being there while it's being done) just doesn't even compute.
You can't keep the sock on forever so you might as well just get it over with. You made the decision......
2007-05-22 02:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by jkc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The less you make of it, the better. Be casual if you decide to report the simple fact. I don't understand what the fear is. Your body belongs to you, not him.
I hope you like your tattoo. It's on your body for life, so celebrate it. If your husband has any serious problem with it, well...your husband is not altogether sane upstairs.
So, enjoy your sexy bare feet and your interesting tattoo. If he loves you he will appreciate the appearance of your lovely feminine feet. If he doesn't love you, tell him he's free to find some big ol' man clomping feet to appreciate, with hairy knuckles and hard yellowing toe nails - kinda like the ones you get to look at on his body! All the best.
2007-05-21 17:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by reeksofhoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- It is not OK if u R worried about his opinion /reaction... That's not cool at all... Maybe U need another tattoo & another husband..?
or
2- If U do love him - just create some relaxing sexy atmosphere with some drinks & seduce him... than show him the tattoo as a special present to him ;) If he argues, tell him U did it to surprise him cos U thought he'd love it.
(By the way & just in case (!) think of some argument to support 'your idea of him liking tattoos on women' like - try to remember if he likes any tattooed actress or singer... or perhaps some positive comment he made on some woman with tattoos...)
2007-05-21 22:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by mallika 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go to him and say "look at my tattoo." He's your husband, not your father. You shouldn't have to worry about what he'll say. I have 13 tattoos and my husband has none but he's supportive of mine because he knows I Iove them. He's even helped create some of the designs.. As long as the tats are nice, he shouldn't have a problem. If YOU love your tattoo...then he should respect that...then go get more!
2007-05-21 17:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by bellashira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. I'm in exactly the same position!
I have a tattoo on the top of my foot and I just got one on my inner wrist.
I've been hiding them from my parents. I'm 24 and at the moment still living at home.
It's awful and I hate hiding it but I don't want them to find out.
I hate dissappointing them!
So I have no advice...I'll just look at your answers in search of help too!
2007-05-21 18:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there such an issue in telling your husband that you got a tattoo? He may like it, he may dislike it but you already got the tattoo so there's not much that you can do about it now. Also - why are you sneaking around like your husband is your parent?
2007-05-21 18:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by kristina807 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You obviously cannot hide it forever. Is there some reason that you are scared to tell him. I would assume that you would have mentioned it before you got it done but that is not the case. So just suck it up and tell him you got it. Better now then later.
2007-05-21 17:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by ~LYNZ~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, he's your husband. You should have told him before you did it.
Secondly, he's your husband. If you're affraid of him, run away. You have no business being married to someone who might hurt you over a tattoo. Otherwise, just tell him and get it over with.
2007-05-21 17:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohh well that cant be to bad that ur not totally honest with him, it may cause some problems if u cant be competely honest, but if he is ok with dealing with things then just tell him if he makes a big deal it wint be because u got a tattoo but because u didnt tell him, good luck
2007-05-21 17:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋