hey ive just met this new guy but he lives a couple of states over and so are only real option is phone sex but i really dont know how to do it so if any of you guys out there have any advice or any like sample convwersation i could use to get started that would be great thanks
2007-05-21 15:01:51 · 8 answers · asked by Mina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I never thought I would do it but me and my partner were long distance for a year and we talked every night on the phone.. And we would always say how it sucked being apart and that we wished we could be cuddled up and kissing right now touching each other and then it would always go from there we would start talking about what we would do if we were with each other...
E.g. If I was with you right now I would push you onto the bed so hard and climb on top of you and slowly start kissing your neck teasing you and then finally kiss your lips passionately running my fingers through your hair.. And then I would begin to unbutton your pants and…………………..
And when I was talking he would say things like I am un buttoning my pants right now baby.. He would talk about how he was touching himself when I was talking to him about what I was doing to him and I would talk about what I was doing and we would talk softly and seductivly… it was hot.. He always wanted to do it after we first started and I was really into it to… when we got really comfortable doing it he would start by saying im so horney im playing with myself baby and it would be so hot so we would start talking to each other
when I would start I would say something like im naked running my hands down my body or something..
I think the first time we did it I was abit drunk and was saying that I was horney so it just kind of happened but maybe have a couple of drinks and then start talking to him dirty.. He will be into it for sure and be so turned on.. Good luck. Hope ive helped haha sorry if its too much info.. Once you start you will get more comfortable and it will just come to you.. Everyone does it different… some people tell it like a story or make up fake names and some tell it as if it happening right that moment...
Some other things me and my partner did was sent each other pictures of ourselves naked and then when that was boring a couple of kinky movies… all fun and games.. But to do that you have to really know and trust each other…. Now we are living together so we are proof long distance can work…
Really hope ive helped...
2007-05-21 16:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone sex is nice when you can't be together. It lets you both shed some inhibitions without feeling embarrassed as to the other's reactions and you can really open up to your fantasies and desires this way as well. You can do this in many ways. My bf is gone most of the time (OTR driver) and it's the next best thing to "being there". Even the simplest statement can be a starter for this. Try it sometime - you'll like it!!
2007-05-21 22:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to come up with a story line. Maybe something like this.
You come home from after a long day at work. As you toss your keys down you notice a note on your coffee table. It is from your man and it reads: Hey baby, I fixed you a nice bath. Just how you like it extra hot with lots of bubbles.
After reading the note you head to the bathroom. The tub is filled to the brim with bubbley water and half melted candles line the tubs rim. You find another note on the sink counter. Its short and to the point: Hop, in, relax and leave all your troubles behind.
You sink into the hot water and lay back. You close your eyes tightly and let the warm water ease your muscles. Your man quietly sneaks in and slowly starts to rub your shoulders.
You take it from there sista!!!
2007-05-21 22:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by ripstang3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The usual flow is "im wearing pink panties and a bra, oh im getting hot blah blah". Then u subsitute the new guys thing for your fingers or whatever long penis like objects you have avalible to you (dont use bottles, they can break in there)
2007-05-21 22:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its awesome
2007-05-21 22:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tried it once but I couldn't finish because I was laughing so hard.
2007-05-21 22:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about what you would do to each other if you were together...........
2007-05-29 15:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO THAT!!! ITS SO RETARDED!!! GET A LIFE U SL*T!
2007-05-29 21:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by KelSexyBaby 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋