I tryed having sex with my cousin?

Question

I feel so guilty please tell me I'm not the only one I know Its dumb but we were experimenting!!!!

Answer 1

Girl.. that is plain WRONG!! You intentionally tried to have sex with your cousin!! It's incest!! There are others who had relationships or had sex with their cousin, but they only did that because they're NOT AWARE THAT THEY ARE RELATIVES!! What if you're impregnated by your own cousin? Think of the consequences!!

Keep your distance from each other for awhile.. It's really dumb.. and experimenting is not a good excuse for what you did.. It's against the human law.. and the law of nature!! Don't do it again..

Answer 2

Amazing how some people can make such judgments on so little information ,,,,

You needn't feel so guilty as long as it was a cousin and only then if this cousin was genetically far enough removed from you ,,,,

Assuming that's the case then nothing is wrong ,,,, You're getting allot of crap for answers for this question but what you need to do is just use your head and use your own judgment ,,,,

There are cousins that marry but they are far enough removed from each other genetically that it makes no difference ,,,, Believe it or not it's been documented that brothers and sister have married before also ,,,,

Some of these crap answers are probably by some people that are guilty of the same thing saying "Shame on you" but deep down they know where you are at ,,,, Don't let them bother you or make you feel bad ,,,, Opinions are like rectums anyway ,,,,Every body has one ,,,,

Everyone is yelling incest in their answers ,,,, Maybe they need to look up the true definition of the word and do a little studying and research to find out what the perameters are for the word before they apply it to anyone ,,,,

No matter how bad you think you are you can always look around and find some one else allot worse ,,,, Once again don't let what 99% of these people say to you bother you ,,,,

It's always easy ,,,, and fun ,,,,, to look down your nose at some one especially if that some one already feels guilty about something in the first place ,,,, It's like pouring salt in an open wound ,,,, They seem to forget that every one has a skeleton or two in their closet ,,,,

The only problem you may have and you didn't mention it is just how closely related you are to this cousin genetically ,,,, Too close and you'd have a problem if a pregnancy would occure ,,,, Better check that out before you do anything else with this cousin ,,,,

It's the genetic situation that will determine what's right or wrong in this matter not these closed minded idiots trying to drag you down ,,,, You just asked a question looking for advise not abuse or ridicuel ,,,,

Even if you did make a mistake then ok you've owned up to it ,,,,(not that you had to) but you know not to do it again ,,,, Besides until you find out how closely related to this cousin you really are then you don't known if you've even made a mistake ,,,,

Answer 3

How old are you both? I won't say you're an idiot or dumb like some other people would. HOWEVER this is serious! Is your cousin a boy or girl? Was it consentual? When I was little I was molested repeatedly by my older male cousin. He was 'experimenting' too. He also did it to a younger female cousin and once made me and her do things to each other. It has messed up my whole adult life and I am now 31 years old and finally dealing with what happened. Find an adult you can trust to talk to.....whatever you do, even if it was a consentual act and you're okay with what happened, don't ignore it. Talk to someone, a school guidance counselor or an aunt or sister. Someone needs to know because no it's not natural to do that sort of thing. Good luck.

Answer 4

Don't let the haters get to you.

It's a natural drive and a very strong one. It's understandable to want to do it with someone you know and trust, but you are better off putting it off until you are older and find someone you can really form a lasting relationship with. That isn't going to happen with your cousin.

No need to feel guilty. Talk to your cousin. Tell him it was a mistake and that you don't want to do that again.

BTW, I have a cousin that I was VERY sexually attracted to when I was younger. Nothing ever happened but it could have if the right (wrong?) circumstances had happened.

Answer 5

There is so many people that you can experiment with. WHY choose your cousin.
Also the otherthing is that sex comes naturally when you are in love and when you are married.
So you do not have to practice right now as if you are getting a master degree..
Sex is mother nature, and even animals have sex, and no one thought them. They don't "experiment" and so for..
In fact it is just YOUR EXCUSE in saying that..

Snap out of it and focus on your studies or career..

Take care.

Answer 6

Okay, well, you can't change what's already happened, and I'm sure you aren't the only person in the world to have done this. In fact, I have a friend who was sexually molested by a cousin in her childhood. But please, you realize it's wrong. Don't do it again. Just be a little more careful and don't let this cousin talk you into it okay. Good luck.

Answer 7

That's super grose. It takes a really messed up person to even WANT to do that. And a really stupid cousin to agree. And yeah, I think you're the only one. And..couldn't you find someone else to "experiment with?" Pick an animal or something. A monkey is probably better then a cousin and it's human like enough. They even have posable thumbs. EWWW.

Answer 8

I really pity you. Let us try to examine the cause of the problem. The two of you must have enjoyed uncheked closeness to the point of seeing your nudity. You have to be determined not to repeat it again and also try whatever that will keep the two of you apart for a while. If not, it will repeat itself again. Pray that God give you the power to overcome this sin.

Answer 9

Relax! Although it isn't right, a lot of people do it. My first kiss and hand holding was with my cousin.We were 14.My mom's cousins married each other and had ten kids. It is better to wait till your older. Save yourself for Mr. Right.

Answer 10

I'm sorry but you should have never tried that. I don't care if you were experimenting. You don't do that with a cousin you that with a boyfriend or maybe some close FRIEND. Maybe you shouldn't be experimenting at all. This is bad.