I hate everyone?

Question

Why do I have to pretend I like people when I don't? I am really not as nice as I act and I am sick of it. I just wan2 stop being afraid of being my mean self. Can't I just be mean??

I like 2 people. I am nice to them.

Answer 1

if you think you are mean you are probably unhappy, try liking yourself more and you will find you like other people more. think of the things that are great about you ask close friends and family what they like about you. Try to think of all the people you love and love you, how would you feel if someone was mean to them or said things that hurt their feelings. Try getting closer to God, he really really loves you no matter what even if you are mean, but I personally have a feeling that you are a nice person, why would you bother to ask for advice if you didn't care. Remember its always nice to be nice, treat people the way you would like to be treated.
Best of luck and many blessings to the really nice person I think you are.

Answer 2

I think that you should'nt be the mean persön that you aspire to become for the following reasons. Firstly, you will be remembered as a mean person after you pass away and secondly people will not like you. You must remember, that you will always need people when you go through troubled times. If you are going to be a generally mean persön, there's a strong chance that people will not help you when you are in need, even if you maybe desparate. If you don't like socialising with a lot of people, then just remain aloof and mingle with your two friends as stated. You don't have to be part of a group of friends. It's quite all right to be by yourself. Just don't be mean to anyone. If you find yourself in a situatiön where someone is being rude to you and the urge to be mean is overwhelming, then in a stern -toned voice, express you discontent, rather than becoming angry and upset about. Remember, it's how you treat people that people in turn will treat you. So, if you behave in a mean and nasty manner to people, then the people will most likely be nasty and mean to you. You cannot be mean and expect people to like. This mean nature will definitely be against your favour in the long run. Think about, if there is a job which you have applied for and the person offering the job knows that you are a nasty person, the chances are that you might not get the job even though your resumè may be outstanding. This is just one example of the consequences of your intentions to be mean. .In actual fact you are going to not only be mean to people, but you are actually going to be mean to yourself as you are going to face the unpleasant consequences of being a nasty person. I don't think that it's worth being mean. There's too much to lose.. You rather suppress the urge of being mean before you do something nasty and it is too late for tears. . .

Answer 3

Yes! by all means be as mean as you want, to anyone you want, but don't wonder why you are a miserable wretchedly unhappy person spending the rest of your sad lonely existence by yourself.If you truly hate everyone then quit pretending to be nice,you probably only do that when you want something anyway.Learn to take care of yourself,don't ask anyone for anything and stay home in your room and and die alone.There is a song called Karma and in the song it says "what goes around comes around,what goes up must come down"and It sounds like you will have some real NASTY KARMA coming you way in life.Good luck because your gonna need it!

Answer 4

Me too! I'm a mean, nasty old SOB. Children run crying to their mother when I walk down the street. Small furry creatures run and hide in the shadows. I’m a opinionated, self centered, egotistic butt hole and worst of all I’m a Republican. My horse died, my dog ain’t worth killing and although I have made several futile attempts, I can’t even run off the darn cat. My truck is so old and beat up that every time I park on the street, people call the cops and report a accident. My car is so slow the cops stop me for not going the minium speed and my bicycle got run over by a Mack truck. No one loves me except my dog and she may be just sucking up for the treats.

Answer 5

You can be mean, but it'll come as a detriment.

For example, lets say you really hate a girl. You act civil towards her, and one day she has a homework assignment that you didn't do. You can copy off of her, no problem. On the other hand, if you were a total b*tch to her, she won't let you.

This is how I justify my actions with people I don't like: I may need them somewhere along the line.

Answer 6

I said that same thing to somebody at work. Sometimes I just get sick and tired of trying to be the nice gal. I said I was just going to stop and start being the asshole that most people are!

Answer 7

Sure. But expect people to be mean to you right back.

I think there's a fine line between being a jerk and feeling like a doormat who never lets her real self out. If you don't like someone, you don't have to be the sweetest person in the world. But you also don't have to be rude. Find that line, realize that you aren't going to like everyone, and try to stick up for yourself while still being considerate of others.

Answer 8

Well of course you can , just go crawl back under that big rock you crawled out of earlier .

People who are usually this mean are angry about something or someone who's hurt them. They usually have really low senses of self-esteem as well.

So what's the real problem here and rather than be a total turd, why don't you go and do something about it . Get medical help, get therapy or you're going to be even more miserable than you are now.

Answer 9

I always tell people that I love and hate people equally. It makes most people laugh when things are uncomfortable.

You don't have to be mean to tell someone that you don't like them. It's more a point of telling them politely that you don't want them around you.

Then you will be percieved as respectful instead of mean.

Answer 10

I think it's normal for people to SOMETIMES feel like they hate everyone. And everyone acts like they like people they really don't. But if you feel like you hate everyone ALL THE TIME, maybe something is wrong. Perhaps you're depressed?I don't think you should be mean to people just because you feel like it. I know when i'm feeling mean, I just stay by myself because I don't want to say something I might regret later.