I'm not saying if I am or not but I want to know how it feels to not be a virgin. Are you really missing out? This is what I hear. And for the virgins out there does it matter to you? Or are you just happy to be here on earth? It's just interesting to find out if sex is or isn't everything in life.
2007-05-21 14:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a virgin isn't bad .. once you find out how good sex can be though, its hard to go without .. wait til you find the right person (cliche as it sounds)...
2007-05-21 14:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not everything in life. I am on medication and as a side effect, I have no sex drive. I dont feel like I'm missing a damn thing. Not being a virgin and walking down the street, feels the same way as not being one and walking down the street.Noone can tell whether you are a virgin or not, unless you find a way to put yourself out there and make it known. I'm personally happy to be on Earth.In short, being a virgin is a good thing: you have never had a STD, you dont have to worry about being a unwed mother , or a babydaddy as they call it, you can do what you want, without the possibility of a child holding down your minds thoughts. Virginity is something sacred.Be proud to wear your white gown (if you are a female)..and be proud to not get phone calls talking about "I may be pregnant and it's yours" or " you gave me something" and all the other horrible things that could go wrong from not being a virgin.Virgins may be viewed as nerds and what not, but take that as a good compliment. Women are more respected.Anyone who tries to talk you out of being one if it's not your wife or husband, is not worth your time.
2007-05-21 21:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by ebbeysweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vince, it sounds to me like you've been under a little peer pressure. Here are my thoughts:
People always want the people around them to do the same as they are doing just so they can feel good about what they are doing. In other words misery loves company. Why would having sex be called misery? Well, look at all the pain, drama, possibility of death and/or sterilization from STD's can occur when we mindlessly give ourselves away in an attempt to fit in. And in the end let me tell you...you don't feel any better about yourself but you feel worse!! If you are a virgin be happy that you are not like some assimilated robot like the rest of your peers. Don't let them make you feel bad about being a virgin! Don't give anyone the power to make you feel bad about what is really a very rare and precious virtue! They are not worth it and you are so much more valuable than they could even hope to be. Be content in that your body is your own and has not been wasted on someone who won't give a rats anal hair about you after its all said and done. Wait for the person who truly deserves your virtuous state of being, which would be the person you marry. I hope this helps.
2007-05-21 21:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by drivn2excelchery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin shouldn't be viewed as good or bad. im a 21 year old virgin and im neither happy nor sad about it; i just accept it the way it is, although i am very curious to see if sex is really as good as everyone says it is. but i don't want to do it with just anyone, so i'm content waiting for the right guy to come along.
2007-05-21 21:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young to have to ask is sex is everything. When you grow up you'll find the answer to that all by yourself. Sex should be an extension of love you have for someone else. It goes much deeper than just the physical feeling if gives you. Unfortunately in our messed up world to some people it's just a game, a past-time where too many people get hurt emotionally.
2007-05-21 21:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Country 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is totally awesome. I look up to you for holding out and making the guy wait. I think the guy will respect you for it in the long haul. I think sex is overrated. Society today has made it to big of a deal. It is suppose to be sacred between a husband and a wife. I just wish I would have waited that long.
2007-05-21 21:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Angie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 24 years old virgin, and my opinion that niether virginity nor losing virginity matters to me anymore...
you see virginity is something to do with age. it depends on how old you are... people are much older than they used to be because they get to go to colleges and universities... by that i mean they are becoming independent much later in life, at least where i come from.
i am still studying now, and probably that's why i think that the train has passed me, since i haven't done it when i was most anxious, then probably i wouldn't care much about it until the moment comes.
maybe, this is not what you expected to hear, but sometimes it is not about our priorities at the moment (interests in life), it is more about the path that we left behind.
2007-05-21 21:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by yaz20100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a virgin and I dont think your missing out very much. It will be so much better if you wait till your with the one you want to be with, I wish I did. I think its a great thing to be a virgin
2007-05-21 21:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl84210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is not wrong... im a virgin and am more than likely gonna wait till im married... im n love with the most wonderfull girl in the world and shes a virgin too... we both know were gonna wait and that doesnt bother me...
besides, if you are a virgin, youve been a virgin youre whole life... whats waiting a few extra years gonna hurt?
2007-05-21 21:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by thumbtack15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not ever thing in life. sex is great with the right person but with it comes a lot of responsibility
2007-05-21 21:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by lowforluv06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋