2007-05-21 14:04:00 · 25 answers · asked by Boomboompow2422 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont have any classes with.lol.Hes a nice guy and if he was to say no hed come right out and say it.he said maybe at first.
2007-05-21 14:27:38 · update #1
hes not interested, hes jsut trying to find an easy way to let you down
2007-05-21 14:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by macgradywade13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't write him a letter what you do is try to become friends with him. So that way he'll get to know you well and don't put up a front be yourself. Most boys like when a girl is herself and not trying to be another person, they'll know you're not desperate. Don't be all about you, find out what he likes and who he really is because you might be talking to a monster.
2007-05-21 21:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was stupid of him to say no. Of course he doesn't know you well, but if he went out with you, he would get to know more about you! I think he may have said that to cover up the fact that maybe he does not like you or he doesn't want a girlfriend. I don't know... I think your best bet is to be his friend, hang out with him so he can see who you really are - then try asking him again later on. But I wouldn't write that letter about yourself - show him who you are instead.
2007-05-21 21:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by trueimage_libra09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being too nice to the ungrateful boy. Ignore him and move on to the boy you like next. Doesn't he know that dates are the way to find out about someone??!! You don't have to give a guy your resume to get a date! One of these days that dummy is going to kick himself in the rear for saying that to you! Best of luck to you!!
2007-05-21 21:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This guy isn't interested in you. First off if you had to ask him and then if his answer was as you said you have every indication that he doesn't want to go out with you. No sweat take it in stride. Rejection has the word eject in it. When a pilot is flying a damaged plane he has to eject in order to avoid the crash and burn. The question is "Who's flying your plane, your head or your heart?" Your head will accept the eject and survive, your heart will override the eject and crash and burn. You must make the choice. I hope this helps.
2007-05-21 21:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by drivn2excelchery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he has a point. no, writing him a letter about yourself won't tell that much about urself except i'm thinking your likes, dislikes, hobbies, the kind of person you are, and maybe what you would do if he does go out with you. this is just in general.
it'd be a lot better to be friends with him at this point, let him see for himself the kind of person you are naturally. then he'll know you.
one thing to keep in mind, for him to really know you, you must not be trying to get him to notice everything about you. just go on with your life, but with him around as your friend.
then try again.
hope this helps.
2007-05-21 21:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by lion_dancer_boi062 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm a boy and if a girl did that, it'd freak me out. It will be hard trying to win him over now that you've already made the move but try casually talking with him and well, he will get to know you and he may very well fall in love. Good luck.
2007-05-21 21:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that is the run around if I ever heard one. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying "I don't want to go out with you" so he is giving you a lame excuse, like he doesn't talk to strangers. Is he like 5 years old. I think he did you a favor. Find a guy that is open to meeting new people.
2007-05-22 19:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Netbee01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and introduce yourself in person, possibly hang out with him, but not a date. Invite him to the mall or a coffee shop, stuff like that. Once he get's to know you, he can better decide if he likes your personality or not. My current boyfriend didn't know me that well but we talked and I got to like him and now we have been dating for about 6 months. I hope my advice will work well for you, since it worked well for me.
2007-05-21 21:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Noreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just get to know him. Find out what HIS interests are and see what you have in common, because from having many guy friends I've learned that they don't get attracted to women when all they do is talk about themselves.
So, just talk to him, and give it time. If you rush it he may think you're obsessed with him or something.
2007-05-21 21:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, right him a note. This lets him no that you really care about going out.
Also, call him 3-4 times a week, you and him can learn about eachother. It's a good idea.
2007-05-21 21:09:12 · answer #11 · answered by ladiesman27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋