falling in love with a married man when you are a single lady
2007-05-21 11:04:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not only is it wrong to break up a marriage, it is not even smart for you to think you have a future with this person.
2007-05-21 11:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to know is that you cant help who you love! It's not wrong to love a married person we're suppose to love everybody but what does matter is if you act on that love or not...
2007-05-21 11:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very wrong. Leave him alone and don't be a homewrecker! Go out and find some other SINGLE man and hook up with him. Affairs hurt people all the way around. Don't try to destroy someone elses life out of selfishness.
2007-05-21 11:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And it's easier said than done. Even if the guy is seperated, he's still married. If he wanted to be with someone other than his wife, he would be divorced. First of all, you wouldn't want some one to break your marrige up... so I advise you don't do it to some one else. Let me tell you a story, and I'll try to keep it brief.
I was friends with this guy who had a wife, but was seperated for a year and in a different state. She ran off with another man and left him with the kids. He continued to wait for her. We fell in love and began a "commited" relationship. He told her that he fell in love with someone else and wanted to be with that person. All the sudden, she wants him back. He went and picked up his youngest child from visiting her. He came back and told me they were to work things out, then changed his mind again and said he loved me too much to be without me. We stayed together for a year, or kids loved each other and us.
I found out that she had been sending pictures of herself to his phone and texting him messages that said "Hey baby" and so forth. He said that he could not stop her from sending them. He didn't tell her to stop because he liked the sudden attention she was giving him that she never did before.
On our anniversary, I proposed to him. He told me that he would love to marry me... someday. He said that he didn't want to stop being with me, but didn't want to divorce her. Needless to say, I am no longer with him. Last I heard they are working things out.
In the long run you will get the short end of the stick because he has already devoted himself to some one else. You will probably just be filling a void that he is not recieving from her. Once he recieves it back from her, he's bound to choose her over you. If the two of you want to be together bad enough, you both would wait until a divorce is finalized.
2007-05-21 11:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by me_mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The act of falling in love is not a problem.
But if you find yourself acting so that you and that person spend more time together, that might be wrong.
But divorce rate is pretty high these days..
2007-05-21 11:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's suited & what's incorrect? It relies upon on your values, your experience of right and incorrect. Do you experience comfy being the only that is destroying yet another's marriage / inflicting the breaking apart of a kinfolk? to have the skill to hit upon somebody to love is impressive, yet could desire to you face your experience of right and incorrect whilst this is on the cost of somebody else's happiness? only placed, could desire to you face your self? How might you experience while you're in the different guy or woman's (the spouse) footwear? You gotta weigh each and every physique of those questions. If on the tip of it you nevertheless experience that the affection is well worth each and every of the emotional investment, then bypass forward.
2016-10-31 00:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's wrong ..if you were married won't you be mad if your husband cheats on you ..!! just drop it down and go find someone single ...
and by the way even if he choses you over his wife ..don't be so happy coz it will come the day when he leaves you for a,other woman ..
forget about it
2007-05-21 11:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acting on it is wrong. you can fall in love with whoever you want, but having a relationship with the person is cheating.
2007-05-21 11:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
falling in love is just fine -- flirting , and acting on it - is another thing..
how can you fall in love w/ a neighbor guy - if you are not involved with him? Must be lust.. not love.
2007-05-21 11:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to prevent it, because that sort of thing is really hard to deal with if you don't stop it before it starts.
2007-05-21 11:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by campadrenalin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋