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ok i am in 8th grade and there's this guy i loose to go out wiht but i broke up with him now him and his friends in class keep staring at me and smili8ng and laughing and making eye contact like they are checking me out including the guy i dumped and they write notes to me like one of them wrote"i am gonna snatch you and tie you up cut you and drink your blood an f*ck you tell you die and mostly it seems like him and his friends are following me and there's 7 of them...and about 4 of them come up and try to touch me..and i push them away and they act like they are getting mad ..i am too scared to tell anyone (besides computer)andit's kinda freaky.

2007-05-21 10:12:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

r they gonna try to rape me??????

2007-05-21 10:17:23 · update #1

22 answers

TELL YOUR TEACHER, PRINCIPAL, MOTHER, SISTER, BROTHER, UNCLE, JUST TELL SOMEONE! THEY PROBABLY WON'T DO ANYTHING, BUY THEY STILL NEED TO GET IN TROUBLE FOR THE THREATS. THEY NEED TO LEARN THAT THIS TYPE OF BEHAVIOR IS NOT COOL AND THEY NEED TO LEARN IT NOW!!!!!

2007-05-21 10:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by caraangel 3 · 0 0

It just sounds like threats. I dont think they would do something to you. However, there have been many school accidents when a student did harm another on purpose, so take action. Firstly, go tell him off, and run to the principal with some of the notes he wrote you and report him. If he has something wrong with him, the school should know. If you dont want to do that, tell your mom!! its important to let someone in on your misery b/c if something should happen...... lets not go there. But let someone know. Dont look at him when he stares at you. Completely ignore him! Throw out his notes without looking at them. Keep far away from him, avoid him, and let some of your girlfreinds in on it also so that they can be there for you. Good Luck

2007-05-21 17:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to tell your parents. And most importantly the police. they are committing a crime,and its just one tiny step away from rape, which can lead to you ending up dead if they try to cover the evidence. didn' t any grown ups at school notice anything? this is urgent and can't wait. you have to act now.I mean RIGHT NOW. If that happened in school you should immediately make sure the teacher and principal know, and they should right then call the police, You are technicallly a child, and know one can get away with treating you like that. And I hope you have the note to show them, probably need to call a lawyer too.

2007-05-21 17:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

They're bullying you. Don't let this continue. Give one note to the teacher. If the teacher doesn't listen, talk to your family. Don't be scared. If you're scared, tell your friends (on the phone) to video tape you secretly with those boys. The person you dumped must be sad and didn't want to break up with you and his friends are teasing and are trying to punish you for doing that to him. Train to become stronger if you are brave enough to fight them back when they are fighting YOU. Don't make a fight. In elementary school, I got into a TINY fistfight and some fights (afterschool of course) with a guy. BIG Difference, BOY against girl except the I always won. (yay) Try to do that back to him and his friends but don't write notes. Try this: Try to pass a note to him and with him passing a note to you, pretend to fall out of your chair and make a big noise. Make sure the teacher sees you. She'll steal the note away and look at it and tell them to leave. (PLEASE DON"T GET IN TROUBLE BECAUSE OF ME!! I"M SORRY IF I DO!!)

GOOD LUCK AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU!! (I'm a Christan too)

2007-05-21 17:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I know it will seem hard to do but you need to tell someone! I don't mean to scare you but they could hurt you. I am in 8th grade too and i just recently told on these bullies at my school, they have not bothered me since then. if it is easier, tell a counsler or write it in a letter and give it to a parent or a teacher. even if you print out your question and give it to someone like a parent or counsler. if you can tell them to stop and walk away. hang out with your friends whenever possible so that if they do come up to you your friends can back you up when you tell some one. PLEASE TELL SOMEONE! hope this helped! good luck with everything!

2007-05-21 17:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by tmac 2 · 0 0

I would definately tell someone you can trust about the situation. Nowadays you just never know when someone is just joking. If they are touching you without your consent, then I would tell the police. Also if they are threatening you in letters, I would keep them for proof and tell the police.

I hope you will be okay. I wouldn't take this situation lightly. Good luck.

2007-05-21 17:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Scared or not little one, you must tell someone. this is a form of being bullied and is not tolerated in schools. There should be a counselor or a teacher that you trust. You need to let someone know what is going on for your own safety and well being. Good Luck

2007-05-21 17:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

Try to avoid them and keep some friends around you at all times while you are at school. If the boys that are bothering you don't stop soon, go to a teacher or a school counselor and tell them about it. School shouldn't be scary!

2007-05-21 17:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by sci55 5 · 0 0

You need to tell some one like a principle, i would take those notes they are writing you and show the person you choose to talk to about this whole thing! It could get serious where they do plan i hurting you, so you need to tell someone about what they are doing to you! It is sexual harrasment!

2007-05-21 17:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 0 0

Well, unless you want that to happen to you, you have to tell someone. I know it's hard, something similar happened to me. Write a note or something to someone (preferably and adult) who you can trust. You need to get help, before something serious happened. Just tell an adult you trust, or write them a note. Its not as hard. You could press charges for harassment. Be brave. Good luck.

2007-05-21 17:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by dc4lyfe310 2 · 0 0

I would really talk to an adult you trust. Like a aunt or the school counselor or even a friends mom. Or at least tell a friend so they can help you. Please be careful and I hope everything works out.

2007-05-21 17:17:40 · answer #11 · answered by Little Miss Sunshine 2 · 0 0

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