Ok so I am moving back to houston this summer for college, and have been talking to an old frined for a while and we both have made it clear that we have something for each other and expressed interest in hanging out when i come home. I come back in 3 weeks. Well, I texted her last night that I couldnt wait till the next 3 weeks is over because all i can think about is having her in my arms... and she never replied back to that... so??... what is that a bad sign or what?
2007-05-21 10:06:20 · 17 answers · asked by BiG Money heavyweight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maby since ur just freinds right now she felt a litle uncofortable w\ that....maby she duzn't like u that strongly yet or maby she had a bad connection w\ her phone...u should call and ask...
2007-05-21 10:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by krystalineMarie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - so you have both expressed an interest in "hanging out" when you come home. Having her in your arms does not come under the heading of hanging out. I think you came on a little strong and she's not sure how to react. Text her again and tell her you realize you came on too strong but you are really looking forward to and excited about seeing her. Reassure her that you are not planning on putting any pressure on her to jump into a relationship right away. Chances are, when you do first see each other it will be very natural to hug - then let nature take it's course.
2007-05-21 17:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by hoosiergal0946 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text messages are tricky, the problem with them is you don't really know if they got them or not. A test to see if she did... next time you speak, especially if she calls you, pretend to be crying and when she ask you what is the matter say "I text a friend that I couldn't wait to see them again and have them in my arms and they just dropped me in the mud, I am heart broken...) See what she says... No wait flip that around sideways... next time you talk tell her you need her advice, this way it works rather you call or she calls you and tell her the story, texted no reply, "what should I do?" See what she says, if she says just talk to them, then say ask her about it, whatever advice she gives spin it back on her!! Hope that helps... Good Luck!!!
2007-05-21 17:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by ellertan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how your conversations have gone, I can guess in general...You may have spooked her into thinking all you can think about is sex. You could maybe call and ask her if you offended or scared her by your comment. Let her know that it isn't sex that has you counting the minutes, but that you will be able to spend time together face to face. If she is still a little distant maybe something happened that has nothing to do with you. Sounds cliche but maybe it is her. Sometimes the dream of something is way out of proportion to the reality.
2007-05-21 17:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Gwen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with the text messages. I have gotten myself in trouble with text messages. Don't think too much about it though. Maybe her phone never recieved the message, or your's never sent it. Technology dose put a cramp in relationships sometimes. Just make sure that when you see her face to face, you tell her how you feel. I know this isn't a womans help, but I know what you are talking about.
2007-05-21 17:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by corrola_1995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just hasn't gotten the message yet. Don't assume the worst and yet don't assume the best---just don't assume anything at this point. Text message her again and ask if all is ok. Don't get long and drawn out. Don't push her for more. Just simply ask "r u ok?" Don't beat yourself up--you didn't do anything wrong.
2007-05-21 17:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Pam1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have caught her off guard, but it depends on how you feel about each other. She might not have expected you to be vocal about your feelings, you know? I'm glad you did, that lets her know where you stand with your feelings and some men won't do that. If she doesn't respond, then let it be; you don't want her to freak out more. If she does respond, stay casual, if she doesn't, them move on from it =)
2007-05-21 17:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she never received the message.....lets not jump to any conclusion here or assumed that she ignore it...usually my phone play trick on me...i mean most of the time...sometime if my bf text me around 10pm....i will get that message the nxt day...lol ofcourse he just like you he think i ignore his text...but for goodness sake i didnt received anything...how can i reply for nothing?? you know what i mean??
well one way to find out give her a call...i hope that she wont ignore it....if ever she didnt answer dont feel bad..left her a voicemail...good luck
2007-05-21 17:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask if she got your text. Best you says this kind of stuff in personal or at least over the call, it makes for a better impression.
2007-05-21 17:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Athena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
she might be a little overwhelmed by this.....did u tel her you couldnt wait to have her in ur arms....and do u 2 say stuff like that normally?
2007-05-21 17:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Carli Corrigan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋