i have a boyfriend and i really love him but i have been hangin out with this guy and i think i maybe gettin feelings for him.
2007-05-21 09:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by tinker bell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you aren't really "in love" with your boyfriend. When you are truly in love with someone, you don't get infatuated with others because you don't put yourself in the position of betraying your relationship. Every relationship goes through ups and downs. But if you start spending more time with someone else than you are with your boyfriend then obviously you are going to start feeling like you are "in love". Why have you been hanging out with this other guy? Could it be that you aren't really ready for a relationship or maybe you were just looking for an excuse out. Why not break up while you are still friends that way you can get to know what you really want before getting involved with someone else.
2007-05-21 10:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pam1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weight you options HARD and make the move quick the longer you hold off the worst the pain for everyone. but don't tell the new guy the business if chosen because he will hold it against you when he thinks it's happening to him. But you already messed up because he an option anyway. if you love the old one you wouldn't know the new guy. But i'm a playa what do i know?
2007-05-21 17:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im assuming your young-----so just dump your current boyfriend and go out with this new guy. If you dont like him get back with your old boyfriend....it happens all the time....lol Hey its middle/high school....no one knows what they want!!!!lol Just dont date two people at once.... thats a danger...
2007-05-21 17:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by chief10619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while dont rush the urge just let a=some time pass by and maybe the feelings will pass but if they dont just tell your BF the you think you guys should be friends like really good friends like going to movies and stuff but not the lovey dovey stuff save that for the one you really like!
2007-05-21 17:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Giuliana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being selfish and care about other people for once. If i found out you were stringing me along, you wouldnt have to make the choice, id make it for you.
2007-05-21 17:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im having the same problem dont listen to the jack *** who called u a hoe if ur then so am i ..
2007-05-21 17:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can dump both of them and go for me. im better than both of them. write to me and i will give u my contact info. best of luck
2007-05-24 00:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by burky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋