my ex and i live in a houseshare.
im fine with her and i thought she was fine with me.
but lately she moans at everythin i do and tries to goade me into and arguement with almost everything she says.
i dont know why cos i am not like this with her, and the other day she was fine and playful but the last few days she has been like this.
why is she being like this?
how can i talk to her about it without getting into an arguement?
please no move out suggestions. thanks
2007-05-21 09:46:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women need attention from a man. They get miffy and irritable when in close proximities with a man who doesn't notice them.
There are soooo many reasons. She may be the type who silently loves you and is hurt that you're broken up. So, you've got her broke and she'll just hand every thing to you ... which makes her feel used ...people get miffy when they feel used.
She might have a crush on another man. This crush may be stagnating because you're still there and she doesn't want to deal with drama.
Ways to talk to her ... you have to listen ... ask questions and listen ...read between the lines ... and then ask questions about what you think is between the lines. Men have ways of seeming to be bullying us when they get too aggressive, so keep it low key, and try to make her feel comfortable. If she's getting irritable ...let it go till later.
2007-05-21 09:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be the time of month or she might want to get back with you.Wait untill she is in a good mood then ask her.We women are very complicated mind so are some men.Good Luck
2007-05-21 09:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has feelings for you still.You know i can't be bothered with people like that.I have to know where i stand.I've had friends like that and the best thing to do is ask them straight out.Not in a confronational way but a calm 'whats up' way.Ask her.Now!x
2007-05-21 09:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still living in a house with your ex Honey?It seems a bit odd to me!You should move on
2007-05-21 09:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Beatlemaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's the time of the month, maybe it's stress at work, do you do your share of the house work maybe it's the increase in her intrest crippling her bills leading to stress and she's afraid of being homeless???
2007-05-21 09:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by pettra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be the time of the month? could she not be comfortable in the situation any more? or maybe, she is just trying to get some sort of reaction from you?!
2007-05-21 09:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by rachealuk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants back with u
2007-05-21 09:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dhoopy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋