i went to newyork this weekend and when i cam back today i just found out he made out wih some chick on satuday when he was drunk.
at least he was honest, we'v been together for 6 mounths
2007-05-21 09:36:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd dump him. >L
2007-05-21 09:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the last time i asked this question, i pretty much already knew the answer. i caught my ex making out with a girl in his bedroom at a party i helped him plan! we had been together less than 3 months... and you know what? we dated for 3 years after that.
to be honest, the breakup wasn't because of the minor episode of drunken-making-out-with-tramps, but that, and a number of other alcohol-related incidents should have been red flags from the very beginning... if a guy doesn't have a hold on his liquor consumption, beware.
if you love him and think you can learn to trust him again over time, give him a second change. if you have seen other drunken red flags in the past six months, maybe it's time to save yourself some trouble and move on.
good luck sweetie! :)
2007-05-21 16:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by tracii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk kissing is forgivable to some - for some others it is not especially after six months. If you are cool with it since he was honest and can kiss him without thinking about him kissing someone else then give him another chance. If it happens again then kick him to the curb. Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me.
2007-05-21 16:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drunk Kissing is wrong yes however he was just that he was drunk I say forgive him if he does it again then say bye but if this is the first time put the scare into him
2007-05-21 17:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this is a tough choice, I know I am not in your shoes in would be easy for me to say this. Believe me I had that happen to me before and this was with my son's dad. But I thinmk that this is just a boyfriend and you need to value yourself and think if you will ever trust him again?
2007-05-21 16:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by love2talk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you break up with him when he told you honest before anyone can tell you???
You know I have always tell my wife that time we were GFand BF and got married and I always tells my wife before anyone.. and we had been married for 10 years and 3 kids and I was drunk like him and SHe saw me and I told her How sorry I was and Guess what I quit drinking for 10 years now.. and I think you should tell him that If you really love me then you need to quit drinking and tell me who you with or why beofre someone tells me before you. If they told me befor eyou then I am done with you..
2007-05-21 16:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that loser... if you cant even leave town for a couple days and he is already trying to find someone to screw I'd say he is weak and I would dump his ***! I am sure you can do much better!
2007-05-21 16:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by HelloPeeps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's done it once the chances that he's done it before or will do it again are very likely. I hate to sounds like a pessimist but come on now. I'm sorry chica move on
2007-05-21 16:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. People think that just because they get drunk, that's an automatic excuse..so it wasn't their fault. It's some BS. Break things off with him and find you a better man.
2007-05-21 16:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by shannon_yo7 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him! The reason that I say this is because Why invest anymore time with a boy. You need a man with plan. Not a little boy that can't control his self.
2007-05-21 16:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ditch him. For cyin' out loud, you can't be gone for 1 weekend and have him act right?
Demand better for yourself.
2007-05-21 16:43:34 · answer #11 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋