I've loved him since it happened in January of 2002. He was the second person I was sexual with,and my boyfriend whom I am still with today was my first.It happened when I was 16 but I feel the same way as I did back then and I'm now 21. Please don't think I'm sick I really have no where else to turn.For some reason I feel like he loved me so much that he wanted to show me anyway he could.Even if I was passed out drunk sleeping in the next room.
2007-05-21 09:35:52 · 40 answers · asked by FukinBch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and he donkey punched me too!!!
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2007-05-21 09:39:39 · update #1
oh don't worry its totally normal............dumba55
good luck with that
2007-05-21 09:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by kc 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I easily have 2 uncle Jim's, 2 uncle Dave's, uncle Martin, Uncle Henry, Uncle Ed, Uncle Gerald and countless many extra... and that i admire them.. yet i've got not got an Uncle Billy...perhaps i will discover one and undertake him as my uncle..
2016-10-31 00:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by heaney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your uncle needs help. What you need to do is get into therapy. You need to let someone help you through this. Your uncle, though he may love you very much, has violated you. It was not right ANY way you look at it. So did he come on to you when you were passed out drunk?? If so, you could turn him in. That's WRONG!!! He used you, and it's illegal. Talk to a therapist. Good luck.
2007-05-21 09:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by babyjo474 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Jessica. I can't help but think you're crazy. There are laws against what you're talking about. He's your UNCLE!!!!! Not sure which side of the fam, but does it matter? That's nasty. I say go to a psychiatrist and spill your guts to him. It cost more than Yahoo Answers, but it's your best bet if you don't personal opinions all in your face. Get over your uncle and be happy you have a boyfriend.
2007-05-21 09:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Honesty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's your question exactly?
If he did this to you while you were passed out, it's rape. He does not love you. He was just horny. (I'm wondering how you found out you were raped if you were passed out)
And you say you're in love with him? What do you want us to tell you? No, incest is perfectly fine? It's not. I'm sure it's illegal.
And if you are considering any kind of future with this man: I'm sure you know you would be socially shunned. Your children could possibly be retard/deformed in some way.
I think you should get some professional help.
Sorry to be harsh, but it's the truth.
2007-05-21 09:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by hmmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An uncle should express his love to his niece by buying her toys or taking her shopping or talk about life. Taking advantage of a drunk minor is not love. He should be reported. What if he does this to someone else? Can you see a counselor? Do your parents know?
2007-05-21 09:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by cartoonfan4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're sick Hon. Your uncle is. Please stay away from him before your family gets hurt. I know you won't report him, but I really think you should talk to an unbiased person about it. What happened is wrong.
P.S- This is all assuming you're telling the truth and not just trolling (I'm leaning towards the latter).
2007-05-21 09:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't fall in love with your uncle this means no more sexual contact at all just try to stop thinking about him and don't beat yourself up for something in the past you can't change what you did but its up to you to make sure it doesn't happen again...SMILE...
2007-05-21 09:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were 16 and passed out drunk and your uncle had sex with you, that does not make you sick, it makes HIM sick!
Often, people who are abused mistakenly feel love or compassion for their abusers. Please find someone to talk to about this. Trust me, getting help now will help in the long run.
2007-05-21 09:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Susan R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will I think that u need to stop thinking about your uncle and start thinking about other things he's your Mothers or fathers brother u have the same blood
2007-05-21 09:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by la_temeraria_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A family member especially an uncle looks out for you. This is a sad drunken man who takes advantage of you. Tell your parents,
2007-05-21 09:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋