I used to have an eating disorder ok and well me and him got on the topic of somehing and he asked me have had one and I just said yes a long time ago and he was like oh and it was a really akward long pause now the question is does he think less of me?
2007-05-21 08:46:40 · 22 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really impossible for us to tell. We can't read his mind. He was probably shocked and concerned. Let him have time to process the information. I doubt the thinks less of you. Just continue taking care of yourself, and if he starts treating you differently (in a negative way), then he's not worthy of you anyhow.
2007-05-21 08:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the important thing is that you were honest about it, because you could have just as easily lied and said no. Honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship, and I believe you did the right thing because that isn't the easiest thing to confess. That being said, you shouldn't feel bad about it either if it was a thing of the past (no matter how long ago or not) or even if you still are struggling with it, which you don't seem to be. As long as you continue to take strides to better yourself, in this case your health, you are doing the right thing. If your boyfriend thought any less of you because of this then he probably isn't worth your time. In fact, he should really value you and your honesty much more. But I am a guy, so I have to be honest. If a girl told me this, it might create a little uncertainty in me. This is OK, it's natural for a guy to question his choice in a girlfriend over anything, but after a little thought, he'll probably be more comfortable around you and know you are a good person. If he doesn't, he's a loser, really.
2007-05-21 08:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you if you ever had an eating disorder, and you told him the truth. Honesty is always the best policy. If you would have lied, he would probably be more upset about that when he found out.
When you get into a relationship with someone, you agree to work together. This means working through things of the past, present and future together. If he is not willing to accept the past, then he should not be having the relationship.
2007-05-21 08:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly cares about you he wouldnt think any less of you. This is obviously a hurdle in your life that you have overcome. He must like the person you are today or else he wouldnt be with you. My thinking is that he doesnt really know what to say in response to your past situation. I wouldnt necessarily flat out ask him how he feels but if perhaps the topic arises again ask him honestly how he feels.
2007-05-21 08:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how was it afterwards or now. If he brings it up again and again, he may have issue, not problem, but that may be how he deals with it. If you think he is having an issue with it bring it up again yourself and give full disclosure until there are no more questions for him to ask. Hopefully then he will move on.
Otherwise, if he hasn;'t brought it up then maybe he is not concerned about it and you could/should drop it
2007-05-28 16:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by yourguessisasgoodasyours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's probably just mulling it over, possibly a little worried for you. But it's unreasonable for him to think less of you- there's no reason! An eating disorder is what it says- a disorder. It's not your fault, so don't sweat it.
2007-05-21 08:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Catie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, however he is likely to keep an eye on you for a little while to make sure you are telling the truth. Chances are he will not give it another thought in a week or two. I wouldn't sweat it if I were you.
2007-05-21 08:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think of you ought to truly see a doctor and communicate on your father and mom approximately this or something. despite if im uncertain how ur father and mom havent observed your eating conduct replace. despite in case you arent clinically determined with something you have to be working your way as much as haveing a bad eating disease. what your doing isnt wholesome for you in any respect. in case you want to drop pounds perform a little activities or aerobic. have confidence me if excrercies and consume top youll drop pounds possibly no longer as speedy yet you will and youll sense greater useful becuase ur no longer cheating.
2016-12-17 19:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might... but as you continue to go out, it may just pass.. he'll learn to appreciate your other qualities.. and if he doesn't.. i mean, if he just sticks to this idea of getting turned off about some silly eating disorder which shouldn't be big deal at all since you are not yet married or anything.. then blow him off.. he's not worth it... but if he'll learn to be a better person and love or rather, like you as what you are, then he's a keeper.
2007-05-29 01:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think he likes you less .he probably just didn't know what to say after you said yes ,just because a person doesn't react a certain way doesn't mean that they are thinking something bad.but if he starts acting different then he may be a little bothered by it
2007-05-28 23:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋