Without hurting her feelings. Any thoughts?
2007-05-21 08:38:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"You're fat... I'm Out!"
2007-05-21 08:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Nathan 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well considering that would be very hurtful, just say that you two have different expectations and things aren't working out the way you planned; if you tell her its cause she's fat, she may also insist that she can lose the weight no prob, so you might not get as clean a break as you were hoping for with that one. Otherwise, your best bet is to make up something plausible, i.e., i'm going away for a while, i just want to see other people, take a break, etc etc
2007-05-21 08:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break Up With Her And Don't Tell Her Why. If She Ask Why Just Say That You Don't Think Things Are Working Between Ya'll And That You Would Rather Be Friends (If You Actually Want To Be Her Friend).
2007-05-21 08:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if that is the only reason you are dumping her, then you're an ***.
Second, there is no way to dump her solely because of her weight without hurting her feelings so just do it quick and get it over with. But you're an *** so her feelings shouldn't matter anyway.
2007-05-21 08:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Hank S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the most appropriate way to tell your girlfriend that you want to break up with her is to tell her face to face and explain to her that you no longer find her attracted as you did before.
2007-05-21 08:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dessert♦Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this: "You know, I'm the biggest @ss imaginable who only cares for the superficial and you deserve someone who will treat you like the goddess you are. I am not worthy of your attention and affection. I will go and get myself into therapy so I can cure myself from being the jerk that I am."
2007-05-21 08:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her her as.s is the size of texas and the only place she can bathe is at waterworld. Then let her down gently by telling her how fugly the rolls are and how your are sick and tired of cleaning bteween them. Invite her out to wendies (she will accept no matter how upset she is) then while your in the parking lot yell, "OMG! I'm being attacked by a whale" and run, she won't be able to catch you.
2007-05-21 08:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all that's aweful that youll date someone in which you know youre not physically attracted in that way. it makes me wonder why you dated her in the first place.
then to ask us about what you should do to break up w/ her is foolish especially saying cause she's FAT, youre a jerk!!!
2007-05-21 09:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is no way to do it. If my boyfriend told me he was breaking up w/ me cuz i wzs fat....i would never ever ever ever ever ever have good self esteem ever again. Geez. That would hurt me...id prolly go anerexic or something...
just tell her u dont think its gunna work out and thats that.
2007-05-21 09:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she wasn't fat when you first started dating, if she was your poop outta luck, you gotta sound like an ***.
If she wasn't let her know, hey I'm just not attracted to you anymore. Honest strait forth, and to the point. don't stall make excuses delay or stutter. When it's over, it's over, end it!
Good luck man, it's never easy.
2007-05-21 08:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by m d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....u oviously cant say shes fat just say i need to break up with u because my dad iz moving and im going with him...srry and then make a really sad face....=(
2007-05-21 08:43:22 · answer #11 · answered by Bootylicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋