some rest. he get upset and asking if i just dont wanna talked to him. actually that day he called me late usually in the morning he always text me also the nite before that day he told me he will call me but he didnt...well i was upset of that so i'm controlling not to be mad at him at all..also thats the reason thats why i want to hang up the phone...but i dont wanna make it obvious...lol
so now i got a change to open up to him i told him that he change...he said his been busy working and stress at work...well i know that so i'm trying to be more patience..
before we hang up he ask if i want him to call me...i said ofcourse...i told him if he cannot call just tell me and not to make me expect....well to make the story short he didnt call or either haven't text me up to now....
am i wrong to tell him...how i felt???? advice pls
2007-05-21 08:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by tyrha69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think you're wrong to have told him how you felt.
Maybe he got upset because he was overtired, as you thought he might be.
That's no excuse, however, for him to stand you up on yet another phone call.
2007-05-21 08:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to tell him how you felt but it depends on how you tell him. It would be good if you can rephrase your words into a positive remark rather than "you've changed". Also, your voice tone really tells a lot too.
Maybe you can say, "I understand that you're busy lately but you really made me worry about you. All these while, I've been expecting your calls because I'm concerned about you."
It's a good thing to put yourself in the listener's shoes whenever you try to communicate with them. Think of the things which they would like to hear from you. Words which show that you care about them rather than yourself.
2007-05-21 08:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-No, you need to communicate more, you shouldn't hold anything back from eachother. Actually, I don't know what to tell you on this matter because sometimes I have the same problem with my bf. I tell him exactly how I feel and I see he makes an effort. Always let eachother know how things make you feel, in that way he knows how to make you happy and you know how to make him happy unless you are mind readers. -
2007-05-21 08:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Here kitty kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, hes over reacting, and your totally fine, nothing in that is your fault, he just might be stressed give it a bit of time.
2007-05-21 08:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree he is way over reacting that's silly your in the right
2007-05-21 08:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋