Me and my boyfriend have been dating fot not even a week yet and i just dont like the idea of having a boyfriend right now.Were bestfriends and i just dont think of him like that. The bad thing is is that he does and he reallreally likes me. I just dont like him like that. I dont want to break up with him. but i dont want to be with him. So basically i am trying to get him to dump me. i havent seen him since thursday, i havent answered his calls. how do i drive him crazy and make him break up with me?
I dont want to cheat on him or do any horrible thing like that.please help me
2007-05-21 08:17:23 · 13 answers · asked by *Madison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple answer.. tell him your not ready to be in a relationship right now, you felt like you were at first, but you really arent as ready as you thought you were, and tell him that you want to still be friends for now if hes still ok with you guys just being friends, and when you feel more ready for a relationship maybe youll let him know. Just tell him things arent feeling right right now, and you dont want to continue dating him until you know that its what your really ready for. He will understand. Dont keep ignoring him because if you want to still be friends with him your going to mess that up, your already hurting him by not answering his calls, and things like that, its probibly making him think somethings wrong already not making him want to break up with you. So just tell him you want to go back to being just friends for now until you clear your head, and feel more ready for the kind of relationship this is starting to be
2007-05-21 08:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to mature and be the bigger person. Just tell him that you did not think this through and it does not feel right. If you really are friends, you don't need to annoy him or make him hate you. That means you don't really value the friendship at all and probably just use him. On the same token, if he is a real friend as well, then he will understand and carry on and chances are the friendship will stay, but remember, when a guy and a girl are friends that means that at least one likes the other more. Let him down easy, specially if it has been a week, don't let time keep on going. Hope this helps, good luck!
2007-05-21 15:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Organized Chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.Why did u agree to be his girlfriend if u weren't ready for a relationship. Best friends should stay best friends if u didn't see him like that why did u get involved with him. Break it of tell him how u feel and kiss ur friendship goodbye. Do not stoop any lower than u already have by trying to get him to dump u. you haven't answered his calls ,... u are so shallow. Grow up and pick up the phone and tell him. and remeber what goes around comes around..
2007-05-21 15:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by colodge_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you should just break up with him yourself...I mean your friends so stop making things worse you want him still in your life. Tell him your just not ready for a relationship and you thought you were but your not and maybe you will be ready in the future, he can wait for you if he wants tell him but that you can't really be tied down right now, just try to be open and honest with him :)
2007-05-21 15:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by shopriteismylife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you agree to be his girlfriend if you didn't like him in that way?! You've already hurt him, and yourself, by ling. You need to be honest with him ASAP, before you risk further damage. Don't add yourself to the statistics by being a tease. Don't mess with his head; it could damage his chances of meeting someone that would actually be good for him. What kind of friend are you?!!!!!!
2007-05-21 15:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by roaminglion12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him that you don't feel as strongly as he does at the moment and maybe some distance will clear your thoughts and your feelings and that you don't want to cause him any unintended pain, if that doesn't work then cut him off.
2007-05-21 15:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him down easy. And do it as soon as possible. It's never easy, but it's worse if you change who you are.
Don't mess him up, just tell him the deal. Then you can still be friends.
2007-05-21 15:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you like being friends and you dont wanna be in a relationship......if you get him to break up with you your gonna regret that cuz than you might lose him as a friend.
2007-05-21 15:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lek 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try being honest instead of playing games. Karma is a bit*h and it will come back to bite you.
2007-05-21 15:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by abstract_alao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u prefer to b friends, and that u are not looking for a relationship at this time....
2007-05-21 15:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋