hi all please only give real advice its a hard question to ask for me. i have just broke up after a 3 year relationship with my GF i loved her loads but now im over her i think and now i want to get back on the market so to speak. i have just met a really nice girl and we have arranged a night in in a few days the whole aspect of sex with her after i have been with no1 else for 3 year is very unsettling to me as i have gotten used to being with my ex and knowing how to please her and knowing how long to last and stuff i was just wondering how to go about it with out looking like a VIRGIN lol i really want to tie the knot im just worried she wont like how im doing things and how long should sex last normally ?
thanks for this guys ps im 19
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2007-05-21 08:03:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its like riding a bike, you don't ever forget once you get back on it
2007-05-21 08:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't give this another thought...I bet you will be just fine with your new girlfriend.Remember, she will also be nervous. The first time or two with someone new is a learning experience but don't get so wrapped up in the performance part. Time will take care of that. Be sure to romance her before the sex. Show her lots of love and attention. Tell her your feelings and give her compliments. The rest is history.
2007-05-21 08:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about your previous relationship and how you are worried you won't be able to please her. Communication is almost as good as sex for women. She'll understand. Ask her to help you and point you in the right direction. You two are still young, so chances are she doesn't even know what she likes. I'm married to a man six years older than me, and he taught me how to enjoy sex and what really feels the best.
Don't stress about how long you last. Women learn to be patient if you don't hold up long enough.
2007-05-21 08:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by new SA mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, one or the two events could want intercourse as we communicate. there is not any longer something incorrect with that, yet isn't a relationship. In that form of intercourse, the two the guy or the female is particularly utilising the different. in easy terms a psychotic might anticipate the different to call later and ask them out to dinner. Its consistently going to be a booty call and returned, there is not any longer something incorrect with that as long as the two events in contact comprehend it particularly is all it particularly is. intercourse does not make a relationship. you may think of roughly having it and you may want it, yet there is a few thing particularly thrilling with regard to the technique of courtship for the two the individuals in contact.
2016-12-29 17:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about the little things....pay attention to her and you will know what she likes and dislikes....go from there....and the others are right it is like riding a bike you never forget. Good luck stud!
2007-05-21 08:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by justterri713 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first don't rush anything things will happen on their own when ur ready n she will understand. it's hard i know i have been there but just let ur self go with the flow n at ur own pace where u r comfortable then things will come into place. be patient don,t rush.
2007-05-21 08:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by tluv692003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time. If you think it's a problem for her, then tell her what's going on in your head.
You may be surprised to find that she'll like you even more for sharing.
2007-05-21 08:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by KRIEGAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it flow... It's boring when it's planned. Start with foreplay and let the mood set the rest of it's course.
2007-05-21 08:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self and tell her that you are nervous go SLOW and ask her what she likes. THat will be more enduring then all the anxiety that you are creating. Frankie says RELAX
2007-05-21 08:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by thirdeye67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thinking too much, just go with what you know and pay attention to what happens.
2007-05-21 08:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by Knownaught 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋